Goal: socialization.

Achievement: kids lying on their beds doomscrolling because the common space in the room is dominated by a massive table with exactly enough room for everybody to bump elbows.

I would imagine an introvert would do far worse in a shared triple room with no common areas at all, in this dorm, they have a private room.

Why is the alternative automatically a triple room with no common area, and not simply a single room with at least a window (plus a common area)?

Because that's what this proposal is replacing.

But the real alternative is another (better) proposal, not keeping things as they are.

Sure, but the school can't justify spending triple per student than standard dorms cost. Even with the gift, the school needs to be financially responsible, and making a huge leap in quality of life would seem financially irresponsible when thousands of other colleges squeeze kids into forced doubles and triples. This is a step towards giving students both privacy and spaces to socialize, with some drawbacks that are a consequence of not having infinite funding.

This is why the library exists.