You are right about Protonmail and Fastmail giving up info to legit governmental agency subpoenas. It's just obvious. Any company will do this, no matter what.
I chose tutanota after an extensive search, because I don't want aliases, I want completely separate email accounts, because if you have aliases, they all still come to the same exact account and I would still have to wade through all the emails. The filters really don't do it for me personally.
And tutanota was the least expensive option that I found. Emails are only $1 per month - $12 per year, while Protonmail is $5 per month after the first email address, at least that is what I remembered at the time. So that is 500% more in cost. So if I have Protonmail, it would cost me $240 per year (if paid annually, otherwise more if paid monthly) for 5 extra email accounts, while tutanota is $60 per year.
Personally, I've switched from Protonmail to Fastmail. Yes, Fastmail is in Australia which has draconian state surviellance laws and will comply with state requests for your data and share it with other countries. But you can't assume that any other email provider won't, as evidenced by what Protonmail just did. And Fastmail has better features for protecting you from being profiled, such as unlimited wildcard aliases, and the ability to create filters and deactivate aliases directly from incoming messages, in addition to a far better overall email experience.