Re:A haunting new documentary about Anthony Bourdain
by MillenialMan on Friday July 16, 2021 @04:41PM
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Social anxiety (and selectiveness) in general seem like better descriptions to me. The introvert/extrovert framing seems off to me, I feel like it's misdiagnosing the problem.
I actually really like most people. But I like them one on one when I can have a real conversation. I hate party chit chat because I'm terrible at it.
I have a couple friends whom I'd call extreme extroverts. One big difference between them and me is if they try to initiate talking to a stranger (at say a bar or some other reasonable location) and get rebuffed or otherwise have a bad experience, they instantly forgot about it and move on - whereas I'm still thinking about it years later.
So yeah maybe introversion is just social anxiety.