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Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by nodejs_rulez_1 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @06:15AM (#27770140)
I wonder how much of this is the skewed gender ratio for men. Traditionally one of the drivers for earning more was of course a family.

Now that you have to compete for a dwindling supply of the opposite sex just to have more responsibilities without any traditional patriarchal privileges it makes it less attractive.

New forms of entertainment and "socializing" eliminate the boredom.

We are seeing a sociological experiment in action across the globe.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by cletus on Thursday July 08, 2021 @07:58AM (#27770794)
So I can’t find it now but a few years ago I read an article talking about this. I think from the Atlantic but I’m not 100% sure.

So the theme of the article was about the role good paying blue-collar jobs play on the social structure. When they exist, men who have them become desirable and this underpins a stability and family dynamic of sorts. When they don’t, women become more independent and the same structure of less stable.

To be clear, this isn’t an argument one way or the other, just observation. But it is interesting to see how the provider role plays out in society.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by loydb on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:28AM (#27771686)
Jennifer Sherman's book _Those Who Work, Those Who Don't_, is a fascinating (and depressing) exploration of what this means, and the social changes that happen when men (mostly former loggers) can't signal their virtue via this kind of blue-collar work. Check it out.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by lazyeye on Thursday July 08, 2021 @01:49PM (#27775497)
"Signalling their virtue" via blue collar work sounds like a wonderful thing compared to the vacuous foghorn that is social media. I mean it actually requires effort, something more than having a "correct" set of opinions.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by dalbasal on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:41AM (#27771192)
We're always seeing "sociological experiments" across the globe... and in all parts of it. Stuff changes, society reacts. It's not like family life, economic life and such have been static in China for the last several generations.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by FooBarBizBazz on Thursday July 08, 2021 @10:10AM (#27772150)
I wonder if something similar happened in India around the time of the Buddha and Mahavira. There were concerns by the ruling classes that monasticism was getting too popular, which led to "compromise" guidance being popularized that men were supposed to perform the householder role when they were younger, and only adopt the monastic lifestyle once they were done raising children, as a kind of retirement. Maybe a sex imbalance played a role.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by coldtea on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:00AM (#27770813)
Nothing that the elimination (via population decline) of a few nations can't solve. The evolutionary winners would be nations that haven't fallen into that.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by oblio on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:10AM (#27770895)
At the scales we're talking about, even a halving or quartering of the population of any country with more than... 50 million people, won't mean that those nations will go extinct.

Plus, once there's an abundance of things (land, houses/apartments, etc.), numbers tend to move back up, or at least stabilize.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by coldtea on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:33AM (#27771112)
>even a halving or quartering of the population of any country with more than... 50 million people, won't mean that those nations will go extinct.

No, but it will mean they will go older, with less dynamic and more geriatric society, worse economic momentum, and so on.

Historically momentum (not absolute position, which depends on prior trajecory and other accidental factors) is tied to population.

When France ruled the world, it was the most populous nation in Europe (1/3 Europeans was French). When Europe in aggregate was the center of power (through colonialism, science, industry, etc), European countries were in the 10 most populous globally (along with China and India). The decline in influence of Britain, France, etc, followed their population decline - in 1950 still 4 of the top populated countries in the world were European (including Russia) and 8 of the top 20. In 2015 only Russia remains in the top 10, and soon there will be no European country in the top 20.

Similarly, when the US emerged and established itself in the international scene as a strong player and then a dominant one, it also got in the top list of most populous countries.

(Historically, China, with its huge population, was the strongest economy on the planet, until the "historical accident" of the New World in the 16th century. Now that the European momentum has stalled, it's getting back up there again).

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by pjc50 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:49AM (#27771245)
> The decline in influence of Britain, France, etc, followed their population decline

There may possibly have been some confounding factors during the twentieth century though, like the hugely destructive war, the shift from empires being a benefit to a cost and their consequent dismantling, and numerous mass casualty and economic disruption events. Russia lost something in the region of sixteen million people to the war.

Also I think you need to be clear on absolute vs relative decline - the population of the UK hasn't declined in absolute numbers, nor has its economy, and whether you mean "size of economy" or "GDP per person".

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by oblio on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:19AM (#27771571)
> Also I think you need to be clear on absolute vs relative decline - the population of the UK hasn't declined in absolute numbers, nor has its economy, and whether you mean "size of economy" or "GDP per person".

He's talking relative. And it matters. For example stuff stops being sold/is never sold in relatively small markets. We're starting to see it with China-only products. There are many disadvantages to being a smaller economy, even if in per capita terms things are ok.

And almost all European countries, taken individually, are predicted to fall outside the top 10 by 2050 (moderate chance for 2050 and huge chance for 2100).

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by oblio on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:02AM (#27771382)
Yeah, but this is just rebalancing the scales. Europe industrialized very early on, but Europe never had the natural resources to compete with truly large nations.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by FooBarBizBazz on Thursday July 08, 2021 @10:14AM (#27772196)
I've heard it argued that the introduction of the potato to Europe, in order to support those larger populations, was a contributor.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by twelve40 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:57AM (#27772003)
> numbers tend to move back up, or at least stabilize

South Korea's fertility rate is below 1 and still dropping, for many decades. Many other countries are on a similar path. Has there been any precedent of a country recovering from such deeply negative trend once more land and houses freed up?

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by oblio on Thursday July 08, 2021 @03:55PM (#27776866)
What you're saying has nothing to do with what I'm saying. Total population is a lagging indicator, in the modern era, due to very high life expectancies, lagging a lot, to fertility rates.

If you look at South Korea's population, it's still being going up:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_South_Korea#/m...

(Edit: Actually in 2020 it went down for the first time in recorded history, it seems)

Give it a few more decades, when people actually start dying off en masse (because we haven't really found a way to reliably have masses of centenaries living), and then you'll should see the population dropping. Unless they increase immigration.

What I'm saying applies once the population actually drops by a large amount.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by twelve40 on Friday July 09, 2021 @02:50AM (#27781084)
> What I'm saying applies once the population actually drops by a large amount

Oh but this is exactly what I'm trying to explore with the South Korea specific example. By 2100 they are predicted by the UN* to have 1/2 of their current population. This remaining bunch will be mostly very old people, the fertile/working age fraction will be like 20% supporting 80% people too old to work or reproduce. This is already a never seen before situation (in peaceful times, at least), which you describe as "numbers tend to move back up, or at least stabilize", like we've seen this many times before, but we've never seen anything like that. Also, I'm having a very difficult time imagining a half-a-century long, continuing freefall in fertility suddenly reversing in another 5-8 decades and them all of a sudden starting to breed like rabbits in 2100, after they lose half their population. Even just to stop the freefall they would have to double the current fertility rate just to not go completely extinct around year 2150.

* https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20191010-south-koreas-p...

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by oblio on Friday July 09, 2021 @04:53AM (#27781694)
With so few people I see no way except for mass migration, for housing stock to remain expensive. And that's one of the biggest barriers to having kids these days, housing being the main expense during a person's lifetime.

When your main home + a vacation home cost half of what your main home would have costed 3 decades ago, and you can afford them when you're 25, that's a huge relief right there.

The big question mark to that is that the entire economy doesn't collapse and also takes down salaries with it. But South Korea is quite export oriented so they're better positioned than some other countries.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by jdmoreira on Thursday July 08, 2021 @11:14AM (#27773012)
The concept of nation as you mean it is absolutely disconnected from evolution. Nations are a construct with no more than 200 years. Just because you were brainwashed doesn’t mean your genes care.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by twelve40 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @01:03PM (#27774810)
Sure, that's not evolution in the proper sense of this word. Seems to me, the more important, bigger point is that there are a number of cultures or societies or whatever you want to call it, that are very quickly on their way out, that's just math, below replacement and people will die out eventually. So the question is, will they be replaced by other cultures that are not on that trend yet, or will the whole humanity follow, because personally i just don't see how can you fight this trend where it already exists and human life is not likely to be extended much beyond 80 years in the foreseeable future.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by fiddlydiddly on Thursday July 08, 2021 @07:47AM (#27770712)
> dwindling supply of the opposite sex

Why is there a dwindling supply?

> traditional patriarchal privileges

What are these?

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by cammikebrown on Thursday July 08, 2021 @07:57AM (#27770789)
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by saiya-jin on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:13AM (#27770923)
... and girls are murdered (same in ie India)
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Y_Y on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:22AM (#27770993)
To clarify, this seems to be driven by selective abortions (unless the reported SBR of ~1.2 is faked).
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by seszett on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:07AM (#27771422)
For the last 30 years, parents whose first child was a girl were allowed to have a second child (not everywhere, but this was still for many hundreds of millions of people).

That's actually more than enough to explain the skewed ratio, even though selective abortions likely also have had a noticeable impact.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by nightcracker on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:51AM (#27771928)
No it's not. As far as we know the chance of a child being male or female is 50% (not quite, but I'll assume it for simplicity here), independent from any previously born children. That is, it is a 'memoryless' process, and you've fallen for the gambler's fallacy. Just because you threw many tails before does not increase the odds of heads.

It doesn't matter what stopping criterion for your family composition you use, every child that gets put on the earth has a 50% chance of being a girl. Suppose you have children until you either get 5 or until you have a boy. The possible outcomes and their probabilities are:

    B (1/2), GB (1/4), GGB (1/8), GGGB (1/16), GGGGB (1/32), GGGGG (1/32)
If we sum up the average number of boys from this process, we get 1/2 + 1/4 + 1/8 + 1/16 + 1/32 = 31/32. If we sum of the average number of girls, we get 1/4 + 2/8 + 3/16 + 4/32 + 5/32 = 31/32. The expectation of boys and girls is exactly the same, as it must be!

You can't explain the difference without selective murder, lack of childcare, abortion or some other selective filtering.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Koiwai on Friday July 09, 2021 @02:18AM (#27780942)
Ha, I've argued this math in multiple situations.

> You can't explain the difference without selective murder, lack of childcare, abortion or some other selective filtering.

I'd like to add that natural birth favors boys, citation: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio#Natural_factor...

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Izkata on Thursday July 08, 2021 @01:08PM (#27774901)
You are noticeably missing G, GG, GGG, GGGG...

Not everyone will continue until they get a boy. Another child is an option, not a requirement. This is where the skew (can) come from.

The question is how likely are parents with G/GG/GGG to stop or try again.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by nightcracker on Thursday July 08, 2021 @02:15PM (#27775828)
> This is where the skew (can) come from.

No it can not! It's just mathematically and biologically not true, and attempts to erase a crime against humanity. The human inception process does not give a shit about your decision whether or not to put another child on this earth to decide whether the infant will be a boy or a girl.

Each child put on this earth has a ~50% chance of being either sex. It does not matter whether the parents decide to have another afterwards or not, this future child also has a ~50% chance of being either sex. The *only* variable that matters for the amount of girls that get born (in the absence of selective filtering) is the total number of children born, not whatever strategy their parents were going for.

To try and prove it to you, consider this randomized Python function:

    import numpy as np
    from numba import njit

    @njit
    def bear_children(stop_on_girl_p, stop_on_boy_p, max_children):
        num_girls = num_boys = 0
        while num_girls + num_boys < max_children:
            child_is_girl = np.random.random() < 0.5
            num_girls += child_is_girl
            num_boys += not child_is_girl
            
            r = np.random.random()
            if (    child_is_girl and r < stop_on_girl_p or
                not child_is_girl and r < stop_on_boy_p):
                break

        return [num_girls, num_boys]

Now let's plot the ratio of girls to boys for one million samples to this function for various stop probabilities on girls, boys for a maximum of two, three or four children:

    def sample(n, stop_on_girl_p, stop_on_boy_p, max_children):
        children = [bear_children(stop_on_girl_p, stop_on_boy_p, max_children) for _ in range(n)]
        girls, boys = np.sum(children, axis=0)
        return girls / boys

    for max_children in np.arange(2, 5):
        for stop_on_girl_p in np.linspace(0, 1, 5):
            for stop_on_boy_p in np.linspace(0, 1, 5):
                ratio = sample(10**6, stop_on_girl_p, stop_on_boy_p, max_children)
                print(f"m {max_children}, g {stop_on_girl_p:.2f}, b {stop_on_boy_p:.2f}: {ratio: .6f}")
What are the results? As predicted, a complete indifference to parental strategy:

    m 2, g 0.00, b 0.00:  0.999922
    m 2, g 0.00, b 0.25:  0.995816
    m 2, g 0.00, b 0.50:  1.001230
    m 2, g 0.00, b 0.75:  1.001087
    m 2, g 0.00, b 1.00:  0.999463
    m 2, g 0.25, b 0.00:  0.997941
    m 2, g 0.25, b 0.25:  0.999697
    m 2, g 0.25, b 0.50:  0.999899
    m 2, g 0.25, b 0.75:  0.997890
    m 2, g 0.25, b 1.00:  1.001904
    m 2, g 0.50, b 0.00:  0.999417
    m 2, g 0.50, b 0.25:  1.002257
    m 2, g 0.50, b 0.50:  0.997706
    m 2, g 0.50, b 0.75:  1.003743
    m 2, g 0.50, b 1.00:  1.002836
    m 2, g 0.75, b 0.00:  1.001780
    m 2, g 0.75, b 0.25:  1.001771
    m 2, g 0.75, b 0.50:  0.997113
    m 2, g 0.75, b 0.75:  1.001912
    m 2, g 0.75, b 1.00:  0.998633
    m 2, g 1.00, b 0.00:  1.000313
    m 2, g 1.00, b 0.25:  0.997060
    m 2, g 1.00, b 0.50:  1.001314
    m 2, g 1.00, b 0.75:  0.997819
    m 2, g 1.00, b 1.00:  1.003839
    m 3, g 0.00, b 0.00:  0.999760
    m 3, g 0.00, b 0.25:  1.000058
    m 3, g 0.00, b 0.50:  0.999769
    m 3, g 0.00, b 0.75:  1.003119
    m 3, g 0.00, b 1.00:  0.999096
    m 3, g 0.25, b 0.00:  1.000912
    m 3, g 0.25, b 0.25:  0.999597
    m 3, g 0.25, b 0.50:  1.000687
    m 3, g 0.25, b 0.75:  1.001384
    m 3, g 0.25, b 1.00:  1.001542
    m 3, g 0.50, b 0.00:  0.999007
    m 3, g 0.50, b 0.25:  0.999736
    m 3, g 0.50, b 0.50:  1.001971
    m 3, g 0.50, b 0.75:  0.999555
    m 3, g 0.50, b 1.00:  1.000360
    m 3, g 0.75, b 0.00:  0.999272
    m 3, g 0.75, b 0.25:  1.001740
    m 3, g 0.75, b 0.50:  1.001187
    m 3, g 0.75, b 0.75:  0.998134
    m 3, g 0.75, b 1.00:  1.002759
    m 3, g 1.00, b 0.00:  1.002063
    m 3, g 1.00, b 0.25:  1.002451
    m 3, g 1.00, b 0.50:  0.999767
    m 3, g 1.00, b 0.75:  0.999704
    m 3, g 1.00, b 1.00:  1.003851
    m 4, g 0.00, b 0.00:  0.999863
    m 4, g 0.00, b 0.25:  0.998141
    m 4, g 0.00, b 0.50:  1.000851
    m 4, g 0.00, b 0.75:  0.999944
    m 4, g 0.00, b 1.00:  0.999089
    m 4, g 0.25, b 0.00:  1.001894
    m 4, g 0.25, b 0.25:  0.998684
    m 4, g 0.25, b 0.50:  0.999523
    m 4, g 0.25, b 0.75:  1.000608
    m 4, g 0.25, b 1.00:  1.003503
    m 4, g 0.50, b 0.00:  1.000178
    m 4, g 0.50, b 0.25:  0.998415
    m 4, g 0.50, b 0.50:  1.000846
    m 4, g 0.50, b 0.75:  0.999193
    m 4, g 0.50, b 1.00:  0.998043
    m 4, g 0.75, b 0.00:  0.999524
    m 4, g 0.75, b 0.25:  0.999053
    m 4, g 0.75, b 0.50:  0.996726
    m 4, g 0.75, b 0.75:  1.000306
    m 4, g 0.75, b 1.00:  1.000998
    m 4, g 1.00, b 0.00:  0.999759
    m 4, g 1.00, b 0.25:  1.000097
    m 4, g 1.00, b 0.50:  1.000577
    m 4, g 1.00, b 0.75:  0.999687
    m 4, g 1.00, b 1.00:  0.996829
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Izkata on Thursday July 08, 2021 @07:53PM (#27779012)
You're not understanding what I'm saying.

When a couple has G, what's the probability they'll want to go for GX? When the couple has GG, what's the probability they'll want to go for GGX?

It doesn't matter that X is 50% boy 50% girl - in fact, it being 50/50 is why the bias ends up towards more G.

Edit: Ah wait I think I have something backwards in my head, I need to come back to this later. But I do want to mention that the estimated at-birth ratio in humans is more like 51:49, not 50:50

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC102777/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6511063/

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by a_conservative on Thursday July 08, 2021 @11:14AM (#27773011)
If anyone is unsure of the truth of the parent post (like I was), I built a simple simulator in Python to test it for myself [0]

    boys = 100000           girls 99350
    boys = 100000           girls 100333
    boys = 100000           girls 101195
[0] https://pastebin.com/Et5CU3n0
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by nightcracker on Thursday July 08, 2021 @11:25AM (#27773172)
You simulated the limiting case, where you don't stop having babies until you get a boy. That's (obviously) not realistic as we have a finite lifespan and fertility, but note that the expectation still holds.

In this process you will always get 1 boy, obviously. But you have a (1/2)^k * (1/2) chance of getting k girls before your first boy. Thus the expected number of girls is

   Sum[k * (1/2)^k * (1/2), k, 0, inf]
which is 1: https://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=Sum%5Bk+*+%281%2F2%29%... .
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by a_conservative on Thursday July 08, 2021 @11:42AM (#27773448)
Excellent point! I updated it to make the number of births per family a parameter. It's still an approximation of reality of course.

Here are the results when the number of max births per family is dropped to 2:

    boys = 74861            girls 75166
    boys = 74752            girls 75464
    boys = 75047            girls 74933
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by ewchris on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:20AM (#27771580)
unless you abort, you wont affect the ratio by continuing to have a child until you have a boy
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by jlg23 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:32AM (#27771088)
> more responsibilities without any traditional patriarchal privileges it makes it less attractive.

If one was raised in a patriarchal setup, maybe. But some societies have already a third or even fifth generation that never knew this.

>We are seeing a sociological experiment in action across the globe.

The extinction of a world view in which gender equality is considered a "sociological experiment"?

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by nodejs_rulez_1 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @08:45AM (#27771217)
> If one was raised in a patriarchal setup, maybe. But some societies have already a third or even fifth generation that never knew this.

Yes, exactly! We can already observe the effects through such metrics as marriage rate and birth rate in e.g. Germany or South Korea.

> The extinction of a world view in which gender equality is considered a "sociological experiment"?

I sense some negativity, could I have formulated it in a more neutral way? Any historically new social reform e.g. tax-payer-funded health care or tuition is in a way an experiment. Also I am not sure we will ever achieve true gender equality. For example in prison population to name one metric.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by coding123 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:22AM (#27771628)
Women supposedly murder 1/10th the amount of people men do.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by dvfjsdhgfv on Thursday July 08, 2021 @10:49AM (#27772660)
Without context, this is just like saying that people of certain color are responsible for most crimes committed in the country etc.

I once had a friend who slapped his wife in the face once. I was shocked when I learned about this. He was very ashamed and explained that he felt completely powerless, she was shaming him he is not a real man because he earns so little and one day he broken down and - not being able to defend himself verbally - he nervously slapped her. This whole event made me sad. It's not like I justify his action, it's clear what he did was wrong and he knew this well, but cases like these get into statistics and then people make up all kinds of uninformed conclusions.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by vorpalhex on Thursday July 08, 2021 @10:07AM (#27772115)
Is this because women are especially virtuous or is there something else going on?
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by jlg23 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @12:22PM (#27774163)
> Yes, exactly! We can already observe the effects through such metrics as marriage rate and birth rate in e.g. Germany or South Korea.

I am missing the proof of causation here. One can equally assume that a good social safety net reduces demand to have children as providers in old age. Or that access to higher education for women lets them make a) more informed decisions or b) not rely on a male partner to provide for them.

> I sense some negativity, could I have formulated it in a more neutral way?

You could have shown that your causation is actually that, not just a correlation :)

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by newacct583 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:13AM (#27771498)
> Now that you have to compete for a dwindling supply of the opposite sex just to have more responsibilities without any traditional patriarchal privileges

That sounds distressingly redpilled to me...

I don't have demographics for China, but in the west there's no particular shortage of hardworking <demographic-other-than-socially-dominant-male>'s doing reasonably well in the market. And their representation in the "hardworking professional successful person" pool is growing over time. That's good, right?

Isn't maybe a better hypothesis that there's an identifiable population of MEN unwilling to work hard if they don't get essentially unfair access to success, and complaining about it? Seems like maybe that's where the solution needs to be addressed?

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by kar5pt on Thursday July 08, 2021 @10:43AM (#27772577)
There's 34 million more men than women in China.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/world/too-many-...

Seems totally reasonable to think that not have the potential to be a husband/father would affect how men view the payoff of gaining higher social status. You can't write that off as "Der der redpill!"

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by sangnoir on Thursday July 08, 2021 @01:12PM (#27774966)
They solve that by legalizing polyandry, but I don't know if Chinese social dynamics would support such an arrangement. Actual red pillers won't like that solution, for sure.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Koiwai on Friday July 09, 2021 @01:25AM (#27780702)
Wow, legalizing polyandry? I'm genuinely amused by how you guys demonize China.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by newacct583 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @11:01AM (#27772821)
But there are more than a billion chinese citizens...

In fact the gender ratio among 15-24 year old chinese (the peak of the one child gender curve) is 1.17. That's not low, but it's hardly a strong effect either. In particular those 17% of citizens having trouble finding a mate seems like a rather smaller effect than the significantly larger increase in workforce participation among their more numerous female coworkers.

So China loses a few men who check out because they can't get a date, and gains women by the truckload (no, I don't have demographics) who are entering the workforce. I still don't see why this is a social problem.

So I look to other people trying to claim this is a social problem, and I'm sorry, I see a lot of "der der redpill" and not much else. If this is a serious economic argument, then please make it.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by FredPret on Thursday July 08, 2021 @12:09PM (#27773914)
It’s not “a few men”. It’s tens of millions of men.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Kalium on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:16AM (#27771537)
Your point about the horrors of sexism is well-meant, well-taken, and morally correct in every single possible way.

Do you think it might be useful information to consider that years of China's one-child policy and strong cultural preferences might have combined to create a serious skew in the gender ratio? India has a related issue. https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/world/too-many-...

Again, you're absolutely correct that this sounds like an utterly repellent expression of privilege and sexism. It's just worth perhaps considering that demographic context might be considered by some to be relevant.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by newacct583 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:49AM (#27771905)
The point above invoked "We are seeing a sociological experiment in action across the globe.", which didn't sound like a pointed critique of the one child policy or of Chinese gender politics to me.

Now, I think there's a real discussion to be had there, sure. But the post above sounded a lot more like MRA whining.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Kalium on Thursday July 08, 2021 @09:57AM (#27772004)
You are once again completely correct! It definitely sounds an awful lot like MRA whining.

It just might be worth considering that what is in one context baseless sexist whining might in another be an accurate observation of the effects of decades of policy and the suggestion of a control group. Some readers might take this as an opportunity to check their assumptions and refer to relevant data.

I recognize that this is a matter of opinion, and thus reasonable people might differ. Again, you are inconvertibly correct in every single moral and ethical dimension!

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by nodejs_rulez_1 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @10:06AM (#27772096)
Sorry, not sure how to make a constructive conversation in the face of semi-ad-hominem attacks or attempts of labelling with some fringe movements.
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Kalium on Thursday July 08, 2021 @10:34AM (#27772455)
I don't blame you. It's often next to impossible to engage constructively with someone who has chosen to believe that you are engaging in bad faith. Doubly so when they start by choosing to ignore potentially relevant facts.

For my own part, I don't think you were guilty of what the other commenter accused you of. I think they over-aggressively pattern-matched some rhetoric you used and responded with something canned.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by newacct583 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @11:04AM (#27772863)
This is sounding extraordinarily abstract, and more like an evasion than a defense. If your point is NOT that "women in China should stay home and let men have jobs", then maybe you could explain it better?
Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by kian on Thursday July 08, 2021 @11:54AM (#27773663)
His point was that in a country where there are, say, two extra men per ten women, then a large number of those men, no matter how hard they work or try, are destined to be alone for life.

If we are talking a country of a billion people, we are talking a multi-hundred-million-person imbalance developing. When young men with poorly developed decision-making skills get it in their head that nothing they do along traditional paths matters because they will never woo a partner, they begin to take less “traditional” routes to fixing their personal problems, like war and crime.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by newacct583 on Thursday July 08, 2021 @12:14PM (#27774002)
... "forever destined", really? "no matter how hard they work" ?!

Alternatively, and much less apocalyptically, a median hetero man in China will spend 17% less time in a committed relationship than one in the Germany (or wherever). Stated that way it doesn't really sound that bad.

I repeat AGAIN, that you're invoking what seems to me to be an incel fantasy, that some men are going to "win" and that those that don't will be "forever destined" to being alone. And no, the truth is that most people (everywhere!) spend a bunch of their lives lonely, but sometimes find relationships, and that love is hard work, finding happiness takes effort, and mopey excuse-making helps no one.

And in particular, the brand of mopey excuse-making I'm seeing here gets really toxic really fast.

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by zenron on Thursday July 08, 2021 @01:19PM (#27775075)
I feel you too are playing a game of toxic excuse making by dodging the math of a declining female population in a country that should be held accountable to the birthing practices it enforced on the population for many years.

"Hey, Guy from China, suck it up, you are only going to be 17% more lonely than the average German man. We have better things to mope about than your socioeconomic situation in a country that literally invades every aspect of your socioeconomic means of production."

Re:China urges its people to struggle. Some say no by Kalium on Thursday July 08, 2021 @11:54AM (#27773674)
I've not advocated for or suggested any social policy in this discussion, so I fear that you may be addressing the wrong person. I wish you luck in finding the clarification you seek.