That's a massive inflammatory generalization about large groups of people. Those are flamebait. Please don't post flamebait to HN: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html.

If you want to post something nuanced and relevant about your own experience, that's great. But whatever your experience has been, inflating it into grandiose claims on classic flamewar territory is not going to end well—and is also much less interesting. We don't want gender war here. It's tawdry, repetitive, and boring.

Counter anecdata - that's not my experience. Idk about US though.