Because the school has been gone for somewhere around 15 years, and the administrators involved are all retired or passed away.

Sometimes, you have to let go of anger over a situation... but still remember it as a compass of empathy.

I don't have the solution. When do forgive and when do we take action so no one else is hurt like we were? Both are emphatic and compassionate but the latter makes one feel as an aggressor instead of a defender like one truly is. It's confusing.