Soliciting feedback is an indicator of curiosity.
Perhaps, if it were said unsarcastically.
Unfortunately that wasn't the case here. They didn't actually think they missed anything.
Looking at the rest of the comments in this thread though, I don't see many that fit their narrative at all. So in reality, they missed the boat entirely.
Re:Peak non-creepy dating pool
by ultrastable on Sunday May 16, 2021 @05:24PM
(#27177129)
not claiming the things I listed make up all or even most of threads on my subject, just that they seem to show up every time
Sorry, but I don't believe you. You said "HN relationship bingo card" and you play Bingo in one sitting, on one day and not across multiple threads. Perhaps it's just a bad analogy.
If you think you're doing well [0] with these kinds of comments, then I'm fine with that :) Have a good one!
> Be kind. Don't be snarky. Have curious conversation; don't cross-examine. Please don't fulminate. Please don't sneer, including at the rest of the community.
Yes, you're forgetting to be curious.