Re:Ask HN: What tech job would let me get away with the leas...
by tartoran on Wednesday April 07, 2021 @10:17AM
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I was on a stagnant personal development trajectory for a while and having a family unleashed stored potential. It is impossible to know exactly how things would have turned out in an alternate reality but if I feel that things took a better turn and that is enough for me to feel satisfied.
Re:Ask HN: What tech job would let me get away with the leas...
by medstrom on Wednesday April 07, 2021 @11:41AM
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That's a good way to put it, and I don't doubt you. It's just that the childless are frequently spoken to as if getting a family is the only way to unleash this potential, and I want to provide a counter-view.
You imagine the alternative as staying in the spot you were in, but of course that's impossible. There are all kinds of random encounters and unknown unknowns that would have happened.