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Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by Lio on Sunday January 24, 2021 @04:27AM (#25890617)
I like your suggestion but for many people, such as myself, church is probably not a solution.

It's not that I don't think that religion provides community or a decent ethical foundation. I just don't believe in the supernatural or any belief system that requires the breaking of the Second Law of Thermodynamics without any explanation of how.

Still the social aspects of religion are interesting. What does "more church" look like if you're an atheist? More participatory sports clubs maybe? Or, more things you can walk to and do regularly with the same people in general?

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by warent on Sunday January 24, 2021 @04:31AM (#25890637)
I think you misread their comment... They're saying we should rethink housing priorities rather than look to church.

EDIT: I see the confusion now, it is actually ambiguous, maybe you read it right

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by jgtrosh on Sunday January 24, 2021 @05:36AM (#25890922)
I think it would be less ambiguous if they wrote “comes to people's mind”
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by tolbish on Sunday January 24, 2021 @09:46AM (#25892413)
No you were right. Too late to edit my comment now, however.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by have_faith on Sunday January 24, 2021 @05:33AM (#25890910)
There is Sunday Assemble, which attempts to replicate the church like experience in a non religious way: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunday_Assembly
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by dnndevem on Sunday January 24, 2021 @04:54AM (#25890737)
There is no 'more church' if your an atheist. Social aspects of church are no different than that of a sports club, etc...

Church is foremost for worship and social second, third, etc...

Some people are not particularly social at church and thats ok. What makes them happy is fulfilling a spiritual need.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by smolder on Sunday January 24, 2021 @06:43AM (#25891269)
Churchgoers get moral guidance and philosophical discussion, communal introspection, and everyone knows they should go on their best behavior, bringing love to the congregation. Those things are fairly unique to places of worship, but there needn't be actual worship of God for them to exist, and that's something atheists tend to miss out on since not many other social groups/clubs have those qualities.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by psyc on Sunday January 24, 2021 @10:33AM (#25892821)
If you really want to get to know your fellow church goers, you’ll have a hard time passing as an atheist for long. Sooner or later you’ll be asked to lead a prayer, give ‘testimony’ to when you ‘got saved’, be tested on your working knowledge of the Bible in some way. And at a catholic church, there’s generally less close community beyond glad handing, but there’s a lot of ritual and recitation you’re expected to follow along with. On some level true believers will always be pinging you to determine your authenticity.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by im3w1l on Sunday January 24, 2021 @06:31AM (#25891198)
Maybe it's just me but I tend to lose interest in sports. That presents a dilemma. Either you have to attend something you are not interested in, or you stop hanging out with the people.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by dnndevem on Sunday January 24, 2021 @07:52AM (#25891616)
Like most things in life: You must be motivated by a need or really enjoy it. As you, sport do neither for me. As you get older working out will be more of a need and you find a good group of workout buddies and maybe a friend or two.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by lovemenot on Sunday January 24, 2021 @07:44AM (#25891579)
In Britain, Humanism was an early 20th century movement to try to bridge between the social benefits of church to - what was increasingly obvious to most people - the fallacies of legacy Christian doctrines.

It wasn't a total failure, but humanism never reached the mainstream.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by dnndevem on Sunday January 24, 2021 @07:56AM (#25891647)
Agreed, there is something unique about church. Maybe the spiritual and emotional aspect is too intertwined to separate. It is very easy to confuse emotions (i.e. feeling good about something) with spirituality when the two are very different.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by lovemenot on Sunday January 24, 2021 @08:06AM (#25891713)
Arguably humanism was an intellectually-driven pursuit. So it never crossed the chasm.

Growing up in Manchester, I found it was football that fulfilled the emotional and tribal needs of many of my peers.

Many people assume Britain and USA are the same. In many respects, that is true. But as to church and religion, they are poles apart. At least that was true in the nineties when I lived in USA.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by drdeadringer on Sunday January 24, 2021 @10:55AM (#25893004)
> There is no 'more church' if your an atheist.

There are the Unitarian Universalists where many -- including atheists -- are not only welcome but also find worship.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by smolder on Sunday January 24, 2021 @06:29AM (#25891189)
I had been to a service, I think at a unitarian universalist church, which was accepting of atheists. As I remember it, it can still be a bit awkward with references to God being common, but you wouldn't be unwelcome on principle.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by dnndevem on Sunday January 24, 2021 @07:36AM (#25891534)
I dont know of any place of worship (christianity in particular) that is unwelcome to atheists.

unitarians simply take the parts they like from every religion to form another.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by etrautmann on Sunday January 24, 2021 @07:44AM (#25891577)
Having grown up in the Unitarian church, It’s more that Unitarians don’t tell anyone what to believe and everyone in a UU church might have different ideas.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by GuB-42 on Sunday January 24, 2021 @10:43AM (#25892905)
I don't know how it might be called in the US but in the town I spend a good part of my childhood, we had a sort of hub for clubs.

Sports, craft, games, etc... it hosted scheduled activities like workouts, helped organize event like trips, there was a room with a piano where lessons were held but was otherwise freely accessible, a small library, a bunch of chessboards from the chess club, again, freely accessible, etc... A lot of activities were aimed at kids but it spanned all age groups, including elderly.

Of course, it created a strong, unreligious community. Unfortunately, as it is often the case with these organizations, the few key players lost interest and no one took over, so while it still exists, not much remains.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by vmception on Sunday January 24, 2021 @04:50AM (#25890724)
I get a kick off how consciousness is simultaneously fungible, able to react to stimuli without a nervous system, and ephemeral, with no ability to quantify any of that at all

Even the unorganized religions rely on this trichotomy without any explanation or coherence

I would be open to any outcome, just quantify the rules and mechanisms

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by AtlasBarfed on Sunday January 24, 2021 @11:40AM (#25893351)
Churches have been replaced by political party affiliation, and services are conducted virtually via the party-affiliated media TV networks.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by viraptor on Sunday January 24, 2021 @04:51AM (#25890729)
There are some secular church equivalents as well. For example https://www.sundayassembly.com/ for people who want some celebration and community, but don't care about the religious aspects.

Otherwise as you mentioned, some hobbies are my church. Local coworking is my church too.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by throw0101a on Sunday January 24, 2021 @10:58AM (#25893021)
Soup kitchens? Many are run by religious institutions but you don't necessarily have to subscribe to all the ceremonies and such (there may be a perfunctory prayer at the beginning of the shift).

Plenty of secular NGOs. User groups (Linux, BSD). If you're into photography: photo walks.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by IIAOPSW on Sunday January 24, 2021 @05:38AM (#25890936)
The church of meetup.com
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by ChrisMarshallNY on Sunday January 24, 2021 @07:39AM (#25891552)
How about work in social services? Not the LCSW kind; the "volunteer to be of Service to society" kind.

WFM. YMMV.

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by jtbayly on Sunday January 24, 2021 @08:28AM (#25891853)
> I just don't believe in the supernatural or any belief system that requires the breaking of the Second Law of Thermodynamics without any explanation of how.

Like the spontaneous generation of life that continuously grows more and more complex?

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by gbrown on Sunday January 24, 2021 @08:38AM (#25891922)
That’s not a violation of thermodynamics at all, since the earth is not a closed system, and it’s also about averages. You can have local fluctuations.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by jtbayly on Sunday January 24, 2021 @03:48PM (#25895832)
Well my fellow fluctuation of highly organized atoms, take luck. Let me know when somebody can explain how everything works without positing a magical thing we can't see, measure, or touch.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by gbrown on Monday January 25, 2021 @08:22AM (#25902812)
Hmm, I’m not sure I understand your point. Scientists explicitly try to avoid positing magical things, and even when things get into the realm of untestability at our scale, it’s hedged:

“Here’s a cosmological model that might be true given our current data”

Vs

“Here’s a magical anthropocentric religious explanation for anything I can’t immediately explain”

Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by jtbayly on Monday January 25, 2021 @05:53PM (#25910062)
"Here’s a cosmological model that..." requires a magical explanation for anything I can't immediately explain. Let's call it... say... dark matter?
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by gbrown on Tuesday January 26, 2021 @08:43AM (#25915666)
You’re revealing your ignorance of modern physics, as well as some pretty astonishing hubris. You’d compare dark mater, which has numerous possible explanations all of which are in search of empirical tests, to the panoply of human religions?
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by jtbayly on Tuesday January 26, 2021 @11:58AM (#25918173)
No. I'd compare faith to faith. One of which declares that there is something above this universe (God), while the other declares without proof that there isn't. (And then large numbers of proponents of the latter posit that we are living in a simulation, thus demonstrating that... they believe there is something above this universe. lol.) Either way it's faith.
Re:The people the suburbs were built for are gone by wussboy on Sunday January 24, 2021 @10:14AM (#25892654)
Entropy must increase in a closed system (which is the bit that everyone conveniently forgets). Earth is not a closed system, receiving a significant daily energy input from a near-by star.