We are useful by default.
They have to prove themselves
Talking about feminists then "We are useful", I might assume you are a feminist, but switching between 1st and 3rd person.
Or, you say "We are useful by default" as if from the other perspective (i.e. mine). If so, hard to tell if you are responding to me specifically, or some "HN crowd" generally; in either case, yes, feminists have to prove themselves, or specifically their ideology. And no, I haven't said anything about "useful by default", that's your strawman.
I think you're being sarcastic, in which case your whole post is just a bad-faith, low-effort dismissal. It'd be useful if you'd respond less cryptically.
None of what you say follows from my post at all. Unless you think "responding cryptically" is a form of feminism.