Jeez, yeah, Wally-World would be a great place to look. Gonna approach that topic a little slowly, the solution is pretty drastic. Hopefully the court system will work out and the abuser will end up in prison for a good while. At least enough time to figure out the next move.

Apparently our state has a program for secret mailing addresses. From what I gather, victim advocates can set up a mailing address at a state govt building and from there it'll get forwarded on. I think the plan is to use that for official documents for the foreseeable future.

That, or you set up an anonymous Wyoming (I think) LLC and register everything through that - leases, cars, etc.

I agree. Moving is job one, followed by legal name change (change the kids names too), followed by complete disconnecting from social media, followed by going off the grid for a bit, lay low for a bit. SSA will let you change your social security number in situations like this. If it’s a life and death matter, this is how you’ll have to do it.

Edit: Also consider hiring a private detective to see if the person is actually doing serious physical stalking, or buying things like guns.