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Re:Apple CEO Impressed by Remote Work, Sees Permanent Changes by ProjectBarks on Tuesday September 22, 2020 @12:09PM (#24556226)
What you are saying has some truth. Maybe I am not involved in the right communities. I will see what communities are out there and where to find them.
Re:Apple CEO Impressed by Remote Work, Sees Permanent Changes by specialist on Tuesday September 22, 2020 @12:23PM (#24556431)
Maybe start your own clubs. I've always been more Groucho Marx than not, eg wouldn't be a member of a club that would have me as a member.

A more positive phrasing: Find your own tribe.

I started a design patterns book study group +25 yo that's still going.

When I was doing activism, I had a hard time fitting in. Politics (and people) suck. So I started a new group.

I've participated in many other groups that were technical, volunteering, political. There's often at least one person that I connect with, making the effort worthwhile.