Professors teach, are they in that position because of some ineptitude? Of course not, the opposite.
Should the school system be designed for ideals that don't hold true, or for the real world?
Students' parents, guardians, extended cohabiting family, etc. have an impossibly diverse range of skills (and ability to communicate, etc.). Even if these people were available at all times, they remain a hugely variable source. If we're saying that practical life skills are important, we should aim to provide a consistent experience to avoid inequality in society.
I'm sure everyone has stories about how the people who raised them taught them a few things well and were terrible examples of others. Some of these will be funny, but others can have life changing consequences.
Eh, no; they're probably more available on average these days. Average working hours are down quite a lot in most developed countries, and far more people have regular scheduled employment (vs working on a farm or similar, which could frequently be every waking hour for most of the year). But the assumption that most parents either know these things or are good at teaching them is... optimistic, to say the least.
Sometimes YouTube (or online courses) can help: https://www.youtube.com/c/DadhowdoI/
But sorting good information from bad is a skill on its own. People come up with all kinds of heuristics with varying efficacy.
I was cooking some of my own meals from when I was 14 or so - Ok this was only simple stuff