If you somehow had an experience of "both outcomes simultaneously", that would violate the quantum mechanical prediction that there is no mutual information between the two superpositions. There are two brain states, an x state and a y state, and they know nothing about each other.
To each brain state (with the limited information available to it) it would appear that something "definite" had happened, even though in the global picture, a superposition still exists.
When people compare QM theories they often do so on basis of the original experiments that were used to develop them. But as a discipline physics has moved well past those. Superposition has been proven and tested to exist, and we have long since moved past that phase and started building things, like quantum computers, on top of it. At this point, pretty much the only way superposition doesn't exist is that every time a physicist does something that superposition needs to work, a devil figures out what kind of result is needed to fake it and does that.
Trying to challenge superposition would kind of get same kind of results from physicists as trying to challenge the existence of electrons would get from people who build circuits. Like, if you have some interesting new theory, I am intrigued, but do understand that to get people to follow it you will need to explain how it replicates the results of what superposition would do in so many different cases that you won't be able to enumerate them in a week.
For your experience of the world to be superposed it would mean that you carry out a quantum experiment with two mutually exclusive outcomes |x> and |y> and you actually experience the superposed result |x>+|y>. This would be like opening the box in the Schroedinger's cat experiment and actually observing the cat to be |alive>+|dead>, instead of either alive or dead. Maybe it's possible, but such an experience has never been reported.
So it's "possible" but would never happen in a trillion lifetimes of the universe. You can tell the difference between that and "impossible" by watching the quantum mechanics work for a few isolated particles, and observing what it means for them to fall out of superposition equilibrium. But in practical terms, it's equivalent to impossible.
For example, the Copenhagen interpretation of QM abandons both locality and realism - particles don't have definite states, and they also communicate at infinite speed (but in a way that can't carry information).
Your friend is in the monad, now you are too. No big deal.
It’s not so simple. Suppose you’re in a box and observe a quantum experiment, and then I open the box and observe you. Then before I open the box you’re in a superposed state |x> + |y>, corresponding to the two possible outcomes x and y. Fine, no problem so far. But what is your own subjective experience? You, subjectively, inside the box, will only ever observe yourself to be in |x> or |y>, never |x> + |y>. Even if from the outside your brain can be said to be in a superposed state, your experience of the world is not superposed.