Re:It pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered (2016)
by PaulDavisThe1st on Friday July 17, 2020 @03:16PM
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I emigrated to the USA when I was 24 and have lived here for nearly 32 years. My step-father used to hate the "fake" "have a nice day" stuff in the US, but on his second visit, he realized that he was starting to like it. He knew it was "fake", but he knew that the person saying it knew too, and he came to understand that it was just a way to provide a more pleasant atmosphere. By giving into it just a little bit, a positive feedback loop starts to run, and everybody wins.
ps. my kids think that i'm grumpy, bad tempered and pessimistic :) they're right about one of them.
Re:It pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered (2016)
by klyrs on Friday July 17, 2020 @09:10PM
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> It's particularly infuriating when the waiter comes up and does the "and how is everything today? Good? Steak nicely done?" routine while I'm trying to enjoy my meal or talk with someone.
As a surly grouch, I'd say that it's worth the annoyance for the cases when they get your order wrong. It's the compliments for finishing my food that I can't stand
Re:It pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered (2016)
by balfirevic on Friday July 17, 2020 @03:20PM
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Waiter checking up on you to see if you're satisfied with the food a minute or two after it's been served is not exclusive to US or Canada.
It's particularly infuriating when the waiter comes up and does the "and how is everything today? Good? Steak nicely done?" routine while I'm trying to enjoy my meal or talk with someone.