I suppose my point is the idea of "this plane is going to crash" demands a bit more clarity for users than "you left your lights on," which probably contributes to why tones are more common in the car.
With cars, I've had the privilege of driving cars with automatic lights for a while now, I don't have to think about it anymore. On older cars, my dad used to fiddle with the wiring a bit and install an alarm if he turned the engine off or opened the door with the lights still on. That was just the one alarm though.
And you’d need to ensure it‘a compatible with the letter of every law and regulation whether you are marketing your vehicle.
I don't see any way a tone is better than a voice yelling at me in a language I don't understand.
Perhaps the brain has an easier time distinguishing between a reasonable number of distinct simple tones rather than between complex words you do not understand and can more easily be confused. If you have to deal with 2-3 alarms then tones are pretty intuitive, reliable, and very simple to implement even with century old tech. If you have 50 critical alarms then you probably want them explicitly informative, words in your own language.
Today the need for complexity and the fact that we have advanced, reliable technology for alerts already made voice warnings standard especially in complex systems operated by well trained individuals (pilots on a plane).
A loudspeaker is ancient technology and trivial.
So imagine a 1983 K-car saying "The door is ajar. The door is ajar. The door is ajar. The door is ajar," until you went insane. I think the option only lasted for a year or two and then was buried very deeply.
Eventually, it turns out that pilots got confused as to which horn meant what. Something had to be done! The solution was ridiculously obvious - the horn sounds were speech saying what is wrong, like "stall! stall!" instead of "toot! toot!".
I think about that whenever I deal with a piece of machinery that emits random beeps to warn me about something. Like my car. Really, how hard is it to say "ya left ya lights on, ya fakking slagger!" so I would know what to do. At least my navigator says "recalculating" when I screw up, although I prefer "ya shoulda turned back yonder, ya witless wanker!"
Though I do wonder why they never put me in charge of the warning horn design.