All the comparisons I've seen this year have been using the 24,000-62,000 flu estimate uncritically when comparing to COVID-19, but apples to apples is apparently 15,620 for flu and 132,056 for COVID-19[1].
Perhaps flu-like estimates will come later, since the CDC tends to wait until the end of flu seasons to release those numbers. We're clearly nowhere near the end of COVID-19 season.
[0] https://news.yahoo.com/flu-deaths-were-counted-covid-0534499...
[1] https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/cases-updates/case...
COVID-19 is new, and was barely getting started in March. Despite early claims that it would definitely taper off in the summer, apparently based on the fact that the flu does, it is not tapering off at all. We have no idea when COVID-19 will taper off, or if it will before herd immunity is reached (with or without a vaccine).
So we don't know yet when the end will be, and they have different dates because they are different viruses.
Edit: For context, I admit the devastation to life from both "sides". But I have no strong conclusion either way - I can't figure out if we're erring on too much lockdown or too little lockdown so far.
https://www.bmj.com/content/369/bmj.m1931
https://agoodwar.com/the-ban-on-elective-procedures-is-killi...
https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/a-tale-of-two-epidemics-...
https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/...
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/295664
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2020/may/14/isolated-uk-...
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2020/05/13/hospit...
https://www.businessinsider.com/school-closures-may-not-prev...
But in many parts of the country (mostly the parts where HN users don't live, naturally), "general chaos" is already not hyperbole: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/06/upshot/murders-rising-cri...
Those people died because of the virus, and the cost of the virus in lives should be measured that way.