The original lender has written the debt off, probably gotten a tax break from the government, and moved on.
People and companies break contracts all the time. Moralizing over it is just a distraction from the economic and juridical forces at play.
Your debt might not be real or moral but you still legally have to pay it so what does that change.
That cost likely also takes into account the money they can get for selling the debt of defaulters. Otherwise the bank down the street that does this more accurate calculation would be able to undercut them by offering a lower rate and take all their business. There's no free lunches.
Your argument could be applied equally to say that anyone who buys a share of stock in the open market (not during an IPO or secondary offering) hasn't actually made an investment in the company because the company didn't get those exact dollars.
I'm mostly taking issue with people who are threatened with a default judgment for a real debt but pretend it isn't happening and then turn around and cry abuse by the system.