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Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by tedunangst on Sunday March 06, 2011 @10:53PM (#2295918)
Alternate interpretation: Facebook is making you act like the authentic you all the time. If you are unwilling to stick to your principles because of what your friends will think, are they really your principles?
Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by philk on Sunday March 06, 2011 @11:16PM (#2295982)
Maybe I'm not being the authentic me when I don't make dirty jokes to my Grandmother that I would to my friends but I'd view that more as simple respect.
Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by PostOnce on Monday March 07, 2011 @02:46AM (#2296406)
People aren't one dimensional, they behave differently in different contexts. Facebook takes away that context. People who would normally only see you in one context (professional, respectful, whatever), may now see you outside of that context, which forces you to act in a way that is acceptable in any context.
Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by tallanvor on Monday March 07, 2011 @03:01AM (#2296431)
You assume that there is, or should be, one authentic you, but that's just not the case for most people.

Everyone has at least three personae. - the one you show to family members, the one you show to friends, and the one you show at work, and you may have more. Each one is authentic, but they're authentic to the specific context that you are in.

For example, I rarely swear at work - I have to be very frustrated or angry to do it there. A few minor words may slip out from time to time when I'm talking to family, but again, they don't hear it from me very often. On the other hand, with some of my friends I swear all the time.

In real life you can usually understand the context you are in pretty easily. Online it also used to be pretty simple - you would have one or more handles that you would use on different sites, and you generally acted appropriate to the image you presented using that handle. But now Facebook wants to combine all of that. They can present it as simplifying things for you - after all, you no longer have to manage all these different accounts right? But it also means that no matter where you are, you have to decide which "you" to present.

This is going to cause problems. --Those of us who understand the consequences are likely to either avoid sites that force you to authenticate through Facebook (this is my option), or start treating Facebook like Linkedin and do your best to prevent anything that may present you in an unflattering light to a potential employer. Young people aren't as likely to get this right away, and I fear that it's going to hurt them in the future.

Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by pmorici on Sunday March 06, 2011 @11:15PM (#2295978)
There's a difference between sticking to your principles and say, not discussing politics at family gatherings. Metering your social interaction based on the audience is just a fact of life. It's not inherently good or bad.
Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by mlinsey on Monday March 07, 2011 @12:58AM (#2296220)
Metering your social interaction based on the audience is just a fact of life. It's not inherently good or bad.

Based on reading The Facebook Effect, I think that Facebook's change-the-world vision is to get rid of exactly this. It's part of what they mean when they say the world would be a better place if it were more open.

Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by Natsu on Monday March 07, 2011 @04:40AM (#2296605)
> It's part of what they mean when they say the world would be a better place if it were more open.

Zuck: They "trust me"

Zuck: Dumb fucks.

That infamous quote may in fact support the hypothesis, but it still doesn't quite feel right.

Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by davros on Sunday March 06, 2011 @11:50PM (#2296075)
Facebook is making you act like the authentic you all the time. If you are unwilling to stick to your principles because of what your friends will think, are they really your principles?

I am authentic in front of my friends, but I certainly act differently if I am also in front of everybody else.

The other really important thing people forget is that not only are you in front of either the whole internet or (merely) every acquaintance you ever had, but you are there permanently. Imagine chatting to your friends - now consider that you know the conversation is recorded and going to be stored where it could be held against you at any time. Would that alter your words? It certainly would affect mine. The non-recorded conversation is the authentic me, the recorded conversation is the careful, on-the-record me. That is why for me this sort of online conversation is never going to replace the real thing.

Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by DannoHung on Monday March 07, 2011 @01:05AM (#2296233)
Facebook is enforcing that there is only one authentic you.
Re:How Facebook is Killing Your Authenticity by knowtheory on Sunday March 06, 2011 @11:18PM (#2295987)
Do my IRL friends or family care about technical debates, or what the latest silicon valley teapot tempest is?

No. probably not.