It's not just old people who are at risk, BTW. With medical treatment the death rate of under-40s is about 0.2%, 30x less than the ~6% of over-65s. However, young people are still hospitalized at roughly half the rate of old people; if the hospital system is overwhelmed we can expect a death rate of ~5% of young people. That's about a 10 million young people in America alone. That's why it's so important to delay the epidemic long enough to build enough hospitals and ventilators to treat everyone.
This is extremely unlikely unfortunately, most flattened curves end up overtaking the populace at large - the more crucial element to control is the proportion of the population that's sick at any given time to avoid overwhelming healthcare or logistic resources.
Step 1. Avoid old people and just do normal life, build an immunity.
Step 2. Now enough people are immune we can hang out with old people again.
But we are at Step 0 and are making a big delay for steps 1 and 2 which will still need to happen. There’s a big risk the second wave will be more tragic than the first if people don’t realize it.