I think you're missing the point here. She's not trying to teach people the perfect semantics, she's trying to progressively teach them concepts that are tricky to understand and assimilate, step by step. And in a way they can relate to.
By the way, she addresses what you brought up in her first followup (with yet another compelling and easy to understand explanation).
And addressing something in a followup is no good - fix your initial post to be correct in the first place. Reddit allows you to edit your post.
And why is a follow up no good? She didn't follow up to fix anything. She followed up to follow up. (And mentioned it by, yes, editing her article).
In my opinion, she failed to properly do that and crossed the line between "helpfully simplifying" and "incorrect".
Can you point out exactly where she crossed the line in your opinion?
And be careful saying "accelerate from each other", once you start including acceleration things become much more complicated.
And for him/her to explain things in such a way is a MASSIVE disservice to you and makes it very hard to learn it correctly later.
And it's not even your clock that ticks slower - it's theirs.
And if you would stay, say for a minute in that speed and go check on the standing person, you will perceive that she is aging very fast.
And if she checked you YOU would be the one aging very slow, since she is standing still and you are moving fast.
You are still thinking in terms of absolute motion "you're moving". You are not moving, you can only compare your speed with someone else's.
But if he accelerates then things are quite different, and much more complicated.
I used to think about it as I explained in my previous comment. But now that ars is making these comments, it seems like I'm grasping something new.
This FIRST thing to remember is that you can only measure speed by comparing with something else. There is no such thing as the concept of "I am moving", but rather "relative to them I (or they, it's interchangeable) are/am moving".
Now when you compare speeds you can also compare clocks, and the same principle applies - you can only measure time by comparing to someone else.
Similarly, rotation rate isn't relative. Acceleration and rotation rate can both be measured against absolute states of no acceleration and no rotation (respectively). This is why our phones have accelerometers and gyroscopes which are entirely internal, but determining velocity, position, and direction require the external references provided by GPS and compass.
Therefore, you can measure acceleration with nothing but equipment (a simple spring-scale will suffice) in your car (reference frame), but you can only measure your speed relative to something outside of your car (traditionally, the road).
Newton's first law (inertia): an object in motion tends to stay in motion. This gives rise to the idea of an "inertial reference frame" which is the idealized reference of a hypothetical object in motion. In simplistic terms, if you pretend that the Universe is merely Newtonian in nature and contains a preferred reference frame then you could imagine that an inertial reference frame can be described by a velocity vector (a speed and a direction). If an object has zero speed relative to the inertial reference frame that will tend to continue to be true so long as no forces intervene.
If you induce an acceleration on an object you will change it's velocity. In it's initial inertial reference frame it will appear to be accelerating. In any other inertial reference frame it will also appear to be accelerating.
There is no such thing as an accelerating inertial reference frame precisely because such a frame is not inertial, it would imply that forces are being applied to the objects involved. The laws of physics make sense if you apply them within any inertial reference frame, but they don't make sense in accelerating reference frames (mass, energy, and forces become inconsistent and confused).
Does that make sense?
Despite the upvotes on reddit, this really is a topic that can only be done justice by good book or instructor. Any self-respecting library should have a copy of Relativity: The Special and General Theory by Einstein, it's written specifically for the layman. Come to think of it,... I should probably pick it up again myself.
Acceleration can be measured without reference to anything else. If you are in a box and accelerating you can measure it - it feels exactly like gravity.
He feels that gravity, they don't.
There is no such thing as "moving through space". There is only moving relative to another object. And BOTH of your clocks tick slower! Relative to each other.