Nowadays there are companies that offer evening time home delivery so that you can always be there.
It's just mostly people aren't used to doing that and are hard to change. People often just send packages to work or a friends house instead. With access points, they can and will return a package to sender beyond a certain time.
I'd say that about half of the packages that get delivered where I work are for individuals getting their personal stuff.
-send it to your workplace if it is allowed
-send it to an amazon locker and pick it up on the way home.
If you have it sent to your house and you're not in, a lot of the time it gets dropped off at a neighbours house. I've taken in a few parcels when I've been working from home.
It is true that the local depot for other parcel service (DPD etc) can be quite far away, but those services usually offer a a number of repeat delivery attempts or an option to leave with a neighbour.
The number of working adults in a household is irrelevant to delivering parcels securely.
That's not always a realistic option. I'd have to go pretty far out of my way to get to the nearest Amazon locker. And it only works if your packages are coming from Amazon.
...like a Post Office?
https://www.quora.com/Will-FedEx-deliver-my-package-to-my-lo...
When I last lived in a rural area, the UPS guy would leave packages inside my unlocked car.
Neither is really a great option in the US because:
most families have both adults working.
Other than a handful of cities, people are so spread out that having enough secure depot's in the right locations would be astronomically expensive.