Also getting kicked out of your owned house generally takes six months not six hours as you imply here. Which again is longer than you will get if you rent which is also not zero time.
If you paid cash for a house, you're losing the risk free rate of a treasury bond (or the rental rate). That's a cost most people don't count, but only because they dont know how to do financial valuations properly.
Making it appreciate is very problematic.
nobody is "making it appreciate" - it's a natural consequence of people desiring a home, and the supply not keeping up (whether by physical constraints, or by political/policy constraints).
> political/policy constraints
You just found exactly who is making it appreciate
But policy should never treat it as an asset. For policy, it should be a consumable good that only happens to take a very long time to consume.
> Paying your mortgage feels more urgent than contributing to a brokerage account
Of course it does, because if you spend your monthly brokerage allowance on a fancy dinner and booze, nothing too bad will happen. If you spend your mortgage payment on booze and steaks, you lose your house.
That's not a "mind trick", that's a real problem with serious repercussions. Housing is not just an investment for most people, it's THE investment, with life-changing, family destroying consequences if you don't keep it afloat.