tl;dr: small tech companies run by completely non-technical people may not always be shit shows, but when they are shit shows, the shit can be pretty unbelievable.
This is an amazing phrase.
Not necessarily medical privacy.
Work at a hospital and in the orientation the first speech is given by the head of compliance who goes over what executives have gone to jail, why, and all the underlings that have been fired for seemingly innocuous HIPAA or PHI violations (looking at a friend's chart, posting on social media, etc).
The money sounds nice but OP could probably make the same at somewhere more reputable with less a chance of feds walking in and taking everything.
It's much harder for the government to take back your $165k after you've spent it all. Sure they'll garnish your wages but they'll do that either way so you may as well live a little in the meantime.