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Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by fre3k on Thursday September 26, 2019 @06:41PM (#21086376)
I make good money (being a reasonably able software dev), and though physically attracted to women, am not interested in them, and haven't been for over a decade now. I was somewhat successful in my youth, but certainly no cassanova.

I find chasing and/or engaging in romantic relationships with women costs me far more than I estimate their worth at (the relationship, not the women themselves). And I'm not just talking money. I'm talking time, freedom, responsibility, cognitive cycles, etc. I think my time is best spent elsewhere on hobbies or video games or mindless entertainment or work.

Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by brokenmachine on Friday September 27, 2019 @12:46AM (#21088532)
Maybe you'll come across somebody where the relationship is worth it later if you keep your mind open.

I laughed at "I think my time is best spent elsewhere on ... mindless entertainment".

Not saying you need it, but the world can be a pretty lonely place if you don't have anyone to share it with. Maybe there is someone who you can enjoy the same mindless entertainment with. :-)

You do you though. You're the only one who can.

Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by fre3k on Monday September 30, 2019 @02:25AM (#21112253)
Doublful. I don't really go places where one would meet women.
Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by brokenmachine on Monday September 30, 2019 @02:51AM (#21112370)
Women are everywhere. You have to get outside sometimes!
Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by rblion on Thursday September 26, 2019 @08:39PM (#21087311)
We are in the same exact place inside. I'm glad I'm not the only one. I don't have a divorce or a child or anything hanging over me like that.

How old are you?

Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by fre3k on Friday September 27, 2019 @07:25AM (#21090659)
Let's say somewhere between 27 and 35
Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by lazyjones on Thursday September 26, 2019 @06:45PM (#21086404)
I presume you've heard of the https://www.mgtow.com community/movement?
Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by fre3k on Thursday September 26, 2019 @06:50PM (#21086448)
Sure, but I don't identify with it. I haven't really been hurt past, you know, hey I like this girl and she doesn't like me boo hoo.

Just don't find the pursuit or the time dedications or the impact on my life worth it.

Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by newnewpdro on Friday September 27, 2019 @12:35AM (#21088470)
It's not, unless you want to start a family. Then the whole vetting process disguised as "dating" is kind of important with significant life-changing returns.

Personally I decided I didn't want kids decades ago, it drastically changed the distribution of priorities. I, like you, simply can't be bothered with dating now. It's just not worth the time and effort, risk of STDs, risk of pregnancy, risk of crazy, drama, etc.

Having said that however, there is something to be said for having a reliable partner in old age when hospital visits and navigating the healthcare system becomes a regular activity. It's problematic to be alone in a hospital, for a variety of reasons.

Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by mikelyons on Thursday September 26, 2019 @08:16PM (#21087127)
The truth is that it's not. Good on ya
Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by analognoise on Thursday September 26, 2019 @11:51PM (#21088252)
Wow that's some sad cringy stuff. That's enough internet for this week.
Re:Women are struggling to find men who make as much money a... by thebigspacefuck on Friday September 27, 2019 @12:28AM (#21088426)
Is it the porn?