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Re:Ask HN: Are you ok? by rubicon33 on Thursday September 12, 2019 @11:09AM (#20952332)
I get that this comes from a good place, but unless you have a lot of trust with your team then you might get a lot who will lie.

If I didn't trust my lead to not potentially think less of me (consciously or not), or even worse, to use my answer against me somehow (toxic environment) ... then I definitely would answer "2 or 3" even if I was a 5.

Re:Ask HN: Are you ok? by driverdan on Thursday September 12, 2019 @12:23PM (#20953342)
If your team doesn't have enough trust to answer this question there are bigger problems in your company.

That said, I've managed people who have mental health problems that results in high anxiety from answering these types of questions. As a manager / lead you have to know your employees and work with each of them as an individual.

Re:Ask HN: Are you ok? by reroute1 on Thursday September 12, 2019 @02:31PM (#20954740)
Is it a mental health problem or just human nature?