There are no absolutes, only consequences

One example, for every person that will speak for a woman that clearly had her headphones on and didnt want to talk, there are just as many women that arent trying to telepathically signal to leave them alone and are open to the interruption

Everyone operating in absolutes are at a disadvantage

There will always be people better at reading this, there will always be people attractive enough to get a pass on actions that the internet says are always bad, there will always be people part of a hookup that “didnt count” which is never considered when people complain about how they get hit on

People are gatekeeping to reduce unwanted attention from unattractive people