Not going to argue your other points, but curious where you are from that San Francisco weather is "rubbish".

A lot of people find the year round fog and chill frustrating and would rather have a proper summer with balmy nights and seasons and such I think

Sure, San Diego is better, but "rubbish"? It makes me think these people have never lived in a places like Montana, Nebraska etc. where if you aren't soaked with sweat and covered in mosquito bites your face is stinging because of the biting cold.

In locales with bad weather you are comfortable maybe 3-4 months out of the year, in places with good weather you are comfortable with little accommodation, e.g. AC, heating, clothing, for most of the year; San Francisco has demonstrably okay weather, it is boring and not "perfect" but far from rubbish.

> Your only value is measured by what role you have at what company you work for.

I’ve seen this in Bay Area churches unfortunately. Fortunately, my friends are interested in deeper aspects of life. You can find people like that here. Meditation groups are a good start.

I’m sorry for my tone in writing this.

Frankly I was rather drunk and should not have been making non-constructive criticisms like this.