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Re:Combining finances by skrebbel on Friday May 24, 2019 @03:30PM (#20004614)
This is what my SO and me have been doing for 8 ish years now and it's great. We call it "pocket money". I can't complain when she spends it all on shoes and bags, she can't complain when I spend it all on beer and hamburgers.

When we were poor, we both only got a little pocket money each month. Now that we're richer, we both get more. I buy hotel breakfasts now sometimes (the buffet ones), on normal work days, in my home town. It's terribly decadent but hey, it's my money. Other people buy iPhones. I have nobody to answer to but me. It's lovely.

I warmly recommend pocket money.

Re:Combining finances by duxup on Friday May 24, 2019 @03:47PM (#20004721)
>I buy hotel breakfasts now sometimes (the buffet ones), on normal work days, in my home town.

Where do you find the time to clean all your monocles?

Re:Combining finances by skrebbel on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:01PM (#20004808)
I usually ask the maid to do it.
Re:Combining finances by kevin_thibedeau on Friday May 24, 2019 @05:39PM (#20005521)
You need to upgrade to a valet.
Re:Combining finances by blts on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:57PM (#20005242)
Does it lead to overspending? Since you have your pocket money - then you need to spend it?
Re:Combining finances by shostack on Friday May 24, 2019 @10:44PM (#20006796)
If budgeted for properly, this should in their reduce overspending because the amount you can freely spend is one you've previously accounted for as "an appropriate amount."
Re:Combining finances by Cerium on Friday May 24, 2019 @05:09PM (#20005307)
My wife and I use the same system, and I would say no. We both tend to save ours and then spend more some months than others.
Re:Combining finances by skrebbel on Saturday May 25, 2019 @01:16AM (#20007252)
I think I get too little of it for that :-)
Re:Combining finances by lupire on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:49PM (#20005157)
What happens if you spend your pocket money on end-of-life care, and then your SO wants some too?
Re:Combining finances by loco5niner on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:56PM (#20005224)
End-of-life care has nothing to do with pocket money.