And I don't necessarily have a problem with that in a relatively sane jurisdiction, either. The only good reason to have a powerful military force run by a democratic government is to guard against powerful military forces run by someone else.
Just refusing to arm your own country and your allies can't be the perfect answer, either.
We can refine from there.
Did France antagonize Germany in the 1930’s? Or did Germany have something they want to do and just went and did it?
We can dream of a utopia where the military is not necessary. But that is not the reality of this world.
Similarly, criminals and non-criminals alike use public roads and internet, but only one of those groups would have need of a weapon with a ground-off serial number, for example.
So is the point the buyer, or the purpose?
Windows, Microsoft Office and other Software is used "for war" all the time, and not just by the US.