Re:Ask HN: How old were the most talented software engineers...
by hluska on Friday January 04, 2019 @07:10AM
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How the fuck does convincing a group of women to hang out have anything to do with work? It doesn't and the idea that it should is the cause of lots of huge problems in this industry.
- sufficient work ability, rarely an issue.
- teamwork - at work interface, negotiating, empathy with others. be relentlessly resourceful and useful, but get yours too.
- off-the-clock skills and interpersonal/appearance likability - a bunch of awkward single dudes can't say "no" to the socially-calibrated dude who goes out and convinces a bunch of attractive-enough females to hang-out with a bunch of random engineer dudes. be that guy, and you'll have friends bugging you all the time... turn your phone off and rock out to Spotify. :D