I think Flutter means native in the sense that it runs at native speed, perhaps even faster in some carefully selected apps
As for a look and feel thing, Flutter widgets feel alright to me..
I have found the perf to be just fantastic on android. Especially compared to react native, which is a native offering.
What's interesting is that you can literally run the same app on all platforms, because flutter draws the whole ui in dart code, using the canvas. And well, dart can run basically anywhere now...
https://medium.com/flutter-community/flutter-on-desktop-a-re...
Bottom line, Its very safe to say that dart is a much better language than JS.
The language of choice has never ever, really mattered in software history.
And don't forget that the big G is behind this thing, which is well equipped to push it forward without the need of it being as popular as js.
Right now Flutter/Dart looks like an ongoing political war between ChromeOS, Android and Fuchsia.
By the way, Fuchsia is getting Android suport and a new language agnostic UI composition engine, Scenic, so lets see for how long Flutter stays as the Fuchsia official UI toolkit.
But isn't the point of a truly cross platform framework just that? So what if fuschia has a different native toolkit. Maybe they are trying to launch a platform specific api that's more bare metal.
I mean Isn't the whole point of flutter is that you take the same app and run it anywhere?