Re:Steve Jobs hired a career juggler to teach programming to...
by em-bee on Friday December 28, 2018 @11:15AM
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well, maybe we use different criteria for finding friends. for me friends are people that i can trust, and that support me.
it doesn't take more than one thing of common interest to become friends (and that trust and support)
sometimes that common thing is a hobby, a lifestyle or a worldview. but sometimes it is work.
having friends at work doesn't mean that i hang out with those friends in my free time.
we have multiple social circles. at work, family, different groups of friends (eg different hobbies, each is another social circle), and in each of those circles we may have friends. some closer than others.
I suspect they are seen together when people make work their complete social circle so their emotional needs are not met unless collegues fill them too.