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Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people by cupofjoakim on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @10:05AM (#18494260)
Have you talked properly to the colleague in question? It seems like you've bottled up all this frustration for far too long, making this infected, which in turn makes it harder to talk about it.

Even if it's hard, just tell him how you feel. Take it easy (don't start by listing all his faults) and stay objective - as in "When you do ... I feel ...". Be honest and say that you're not sure if you want to stay, and that the situation needs to be resolved so that you can have a healthy working relationship again.

Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people by zldkz5 on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @10:20AM (#18494385)
I never tried because we had to work together closely and I didn't want to break the balance. And now I don't know if it make sense since he became my manager.
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people by rsa4046 on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @10:41AM (#18494604)
I think clavalle's point above is critical. Your good deeds, prowess, etc., have little chance of being noticed absent a willingness on your part to blow your own horn, loud. Now that he is your manager and you are subordinate, any attempt to coerce him to change will only evolve into a wasteful power struggle you can't win. If you are indeed so valuable to the outfit (and thus to him as well), then leverage this value to promote yourself, not necessarily at his expense, but to benefit of all. But -- life lesson: you won't get noticed by dint of talent alone (such notice requires unusually observant managerial staff, often lacking). He is not the solution to your problem: you are.
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people by java-man on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @10:29AM (#18494486)
leave the company.

if the company does not promote meritocracy (in a sense that it gives more competent people more responsibility and vice versa), you are destined to become more and more at disadvantage.

life is too short to spend it fighting a localized idiot. go build something interesting that will benefit mankind.

Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people by stupidbird on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @11:10AM (#18494892)
Spoiler alert: talking about your work is a big part of meritocracy.
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people by catfish123 on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @10:24AM (#18494423)
Terrible advice. Of all people you can talk to, the bad colleague now manager is the last choice! That's how you get backstabbed.
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people by JacKTrocinskI on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @10:27AM (#18494457)
Totally agree, don't talk to the guy, I've tried that before and it doesn't work.