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Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by qubex on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @03:38PM (#17761159)
I might add that Silicon Valley et al has not simply cleverly redefined the meaning of ’sharing’ to cover their rental practices, but even the meaning of community has been totally warped out of shape. A community used to be a group of geographically proximate people whose collective survival depended on getting over their sometimes conflicting mutual interests and opinions in order to survive; now we use the term ’community’ to cover collections of isolated loners who are on average many hundreds of kilometres apart but are united by a common and often generally speaking controversial opinion that puts them at odds with their actual neighbours. The Information Superhighway was meant to usher in the Global Village but instead it begat a landscape of virtual ghettoes.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @04:08PM (#17761434)
Personally, I view this as a distinct upgrade. Instead of being coerced into lots of interaction with people I may have nothing in common with except vague geographical proximity, I have the option of interacting with people who actually share my interests or concerns or hobbies.

To me, this isn't isolated loners. It's the first real community I've ever known. The first one I've ever actually felt like I was a part of, where I was always welcome and could always rely on finding people like me.

I understand that some people dislike this shift. It's easy to see where it might be inconvenient for local communities that used to depend on coercing membership to exist. It used to be easy to erase those who were alone in the crowd.

You're absolutely right. We didn't get a Global Village. Instead, we have a network of Global Villages. They are many and diverse and offer genuine community to everyone in ways that the old approach no longer did. This is beautiful and terrible - it's a shift from surviving to thriving.

We finally get to see that there's an option other than ghettos run by the tyranny of geography.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by qubex on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:22PM (#17762025)
The problem with this “virtual community” interpretation is that it alters both people’s perception of prevailing opinions and skews their perception of how and whether they ‘need’ to find compromises with people they actually share space with. Somebody can find a ‘community’ online with whom to share very unconventional views and come away with the perception that this unconventional view is actually widespread despite being very rare.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by lsmarigo on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:44PM (#17762187)
this is at the core of why the fabric of our society is unraveling. We're heading deeper in this direction with no signs of slowing down. Algorithms that optimize for engagement metrics amplify this.

why would anyone entertain let alone engage opposing viewpoints when it's much more comfortable to just retreat to a place with common similar beliefs. Make no mistake Hn is an echo chamber as well.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by taurath on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @07:53PM (#17762875)
Tribalism has been a thing as long as human history has existed and 2 groups of apes both wanted the same banana tree. We have many ways of resolving inter-tribal conflicts, but some just aren't well translated to the internet - primarily because of the consequence free nature of throwing rocks at other tribes. This is changing though - people are moving to more, not less, moderated spaces and communities online. Anonymity only works when there are moderators.

People want to be in a place with common similar beliefs - this isn't a bad thing, its human nature. Its far safer to be around people you know don't like to eat people like you.

The main argument seems to be that because we're not having forced arguments and considerations in meatspace, mano-a-mano, we're not challenged enough. I'd argue we're extremely challenged nowadays, but most of the difficulty is in finding how to deal with the new stage upon with the game is set. Its like arguing that we've lost the ability to form up a cavalry line because of the airplane. You're right in a way, but its irrelevant. The game is changing, and everyone is scrambling to figure out what the new meta is.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by lsmarigo on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @08:30PM (#17763036)
> The main argument seems to be that because we're not having forced arguments and considerations in meatspace, mano-a-mano, we're not challenged enough.

In meatspace social pressure exists unlike on the internet. An example is racist/misogynist jokes are not acceptable in most IRL contexts (especially those that are being logged/recorded permanently as is the case on the majority of the modern web) whereas on the internet it's not only discouraged but it's actually a great way to build a following quickly.

The internet is fundamentally changing how we communicate, ingest news, and share information.

The argument is that before safe spaces and echo chambers online, individuals that aim to engage general public with their message in any meaningful context are forced to compromise their extreme views. In my view Alex Jones wouldn't be a nationally recognized name before the internet, at best he'd be able to get influence over 30 or so of his local conspiracy theorists. No publication would print his views, because of how large a portion of the population they would alienate and anger. I'd argue this pressure is a net positive and having it removed online is leading us down a dark path.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by taurath on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @09:00PM (#17763132)
> In meatspace social pressure exists unlike on the internet.

That is my point and what is changing, as people figure out how to interact in the platform. In Oklahoma yesterday nearly all local news outlets reported on a group of adults threatening violence (or to have their children/grandchildren commit violence) on a 12 year old transgender girl. They did that on Facebook, and their names are out there along with their identities. People are moving towards more identifiable or at least moderated spaces, because frankly most people don’t want to interact on a platform that’s main feature is they allow anyone to say anything with no consequences.

Alex Jones may not exist if it weren’t for the internet, but the backlash to views like his is real as public spaces on the internet figure out how to deal with bad actors.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by photojosh on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @07:41PM (#17762815)
> why would anyone entertain let alone engage opposing viewpoints when it's much more comfortable to just retreat to a place with common similar beliefs. Make no mistake Hn is an echo chamber as well.

But in the original "community", you wouldn't actually be exposed to opposing viewpoints all that often either. You actively had to seek them out too. Ancestor comment pointed out that community was required for survival. Once survival and security is guaranteed, then you can start thinking about self-actualisation, which is a different kind of community.

> when it's much more comfortable to just retreat to a place with common similar beliefs

This is an age-old argument, but taking a new form. Of course people like just doing what's comfortable; we've just replaced the 5 hours of broadcast TV a day with 5 hours of mindless social media refreshing. It's only a minority that actively seek to challenge themselves.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by taneq on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @07:26PM (#17762753)
Especially when 'engagement-optimising' algorithms realise that the best way to get views is to fan a flamewar by tossing pro-Skub and anti-Skub zealots into a virtual ant-jar and shaking it.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by roenxi on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @07:31PM (#17762772)
I'm not saying I have any evidence otherwise, but do you have a source for that?

I mean, "more comfortable to just retreat to a place with common similar beliefs" is a good theory. But it is hardly the only one I can think of. Off the top of my head I also have:

1) Wealth is being eroded by the response to the '08 crisis leaving known-bad cultures to thrive in the lending industry. Social fabric starts to unravel due to lack of wealth creation.

2) Academics have had a long history of being in tension with democratic ideals. Famously, right when they came up with the idea of 'academies' Socrates was executed by a jury trial. More recently, communism had strong support in academic circles of Europe. We've massively increased the exposure of people to the university culture in the last 1-2 generations. Maybe technocrat leanings are leaking out? Technocrats don't compromise well on social issues, they believe there is a best answer.

Basically, the problem might not be algorithms and search bubbles, even though this is a forum that knows a lot about algorithms and search bubbles.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by lsmarigo on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @08:16PM (#17762979)
I have no source these are just my thoughts and observations.

You bring up very good points.

> Technocrats don't compromise well on social issues, they believe there is a best answer.

You are absolutely correct. Algorithms and search bubbles are just symptoms not the disease. Elite untouchable tech giants with no oversight molding human thought and behavior to increase their bottom line and power with a 'move fast a break things' attitude in regards to the any social or ethical implications - that's the disease.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by taurath on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @07:35PM (#17762796)
I guess is the goal for everyone to join in some sort of majoritarian social contract? Being a lgbt person growing up I didn't interact in my local small community at all, because there was a damn good chance the local community would band together and mob me for being what I am. Finding a group of people I can identify with probably saved my life, literally, if not from some band of bigots than depression and suicide.

The rule that seems to be working itself out is this: people can pursue any interest they want, but we have social contracts when those interests interact with other people. Groups converge and have little friction when many people share at least some of the values, so you get things like HN, reddit, etc, but not unmoderated.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by angersock on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @08:49PM (#17763096)
> I guess is the goal for everyone to join in some sort of majoritarian social contract? Being a lgbt person growing up I didn't interact in my local small community at all, because there was a damn good chance the local community would band together and mob me for being what I am.

Alternately, by removing yourself from your community you failed to give them examples that would've broadened their horizons.

Like, this is one form of problem with today's filter bubbles--they help polarize communities by preventing the natural mechanisms of discovery and compromise that are required for groups of humans to coexist in meatspace.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by taurath on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @10:14PM (#17763327)
When you're in a place that is actually unsafe, where people get assaulted for being different, that's a difficult ask. I went to a safe space first. And due to the magic of the internet (and telling my parents) people definitely know. The culture has changed enough to where it IS safe now to come out in that community (the worst that will happen is you get put into a camp, unlikely assaulted other than at school), but it wasn't then - the ADULTS would come after you. The first thing I heard after I came out was "don't tell anyone, I don't want anyone firebombing my house".

People weren't unenlightened because LGBT people were hiding, LGBT people were hiding because of a fear of violence and ostracization. Only when it became unacceptable to be violent towards people did they change, and that's a slow process. Only then can you effect any change. There are braver people than I who stayed in those situations, but most of them were also a lot better at fitting in with the community in the first place.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by SeanBoocock on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @10:01PM (#17763282)
Are you suggesting that a closeted person has any sort of obligation to come out to (potential) bigots so that said bigots can attain a more enlightened worldview? It is not incumbent on marginalized people to teach their oppressors the errors in their ways, often at great risk to themselves.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by kennyadam on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @03:25AM (#17764276)
Who is it that teaches the oppressors the error of their ways? I'd suggest it is actually the marginalized people. Civil rights movement is a great example.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by ahje on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @08:06AM (#17765377)
What you are suggesting is that school bullies would simply cease to be bullies when you show them the error of their ways. Alas, that's not how the World works.

The only way to get to people like that is to hurt them, either physically, mentally, economically or socially. That's what we're doing as a collective by changing norms so that it's no longer considered acceptable to beat people up for being <insert whichever unique attribute you want>.

Doing that will result in conflicts. Sometimes those conflicts will escalate into violent ones. As a single person it's often not viable to proceed into that territory alone, and so it's better to widthdraw from that society.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by taurath on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @08:09PM (#17770851)
Yeah, but from a place of power where they can unify and message correctly, not one from the places where people are being oppressed. When the prevailing message isn’t “oh gosh this is horrible” but “that other person got what they deserved” you’re not going to change people’s mind.

For every MLK there were hundreds of lynchings. You can’t lead with no followers.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @12:00AM (#17763663)
I agree with your point wholeheartedly and completely. You are fully correct in every possible way, in every detail.

With that said, a more charitable reading might be that the person was noting the power of representation and role models to inspire.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by tjr225 on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @12:05AM (#17763688)
I think that's exactly what they're suggesting and it's totally absurd.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by caust1c on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @04:23PM (#17761550)
I used to think the same as you, but I realized that I was putting no effort into my local communities. Once I started to start putting more effort into the local community, I began to appreciate geographic proximity much more.

That said, as all things, there's a balance. The Internet is a great tool for bringing people virtually close together and spreading ideas. Sharing those ideas is a great way to enhance your local community.

> tyranny of geography

Haha. We're a long way from being omnipresent so you better get used to having neighbors. ;-)

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @04:29PM (#17761605)
Can we just agree that it's not evil that people get a choice now where they didn't before?

You're very right! Sharing ideas to enhance your local community can be incredibly valuable and rewarding! However, some people occasionally find that their local communities do not always uniformly and enthusiastically welcome the ideas they want to share. Some people, faced with such experiences and fears, might consider that analog and digital communities offer different tradeoffs.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by pathseeker on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @04:44PM (#17761727)
> Can we just agree that it's not evil that people get a choice now where they didn't before?

It depends. I find the fact that people can isolate themselves into communities where it's very easy to censor out any possible dissenters and dissenting opinions to be pretty damn damaging to our society.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by kbenson on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:56PM (#17762278)
That's always been the case. You can just as easily ignore all the people outside your religion, specific church, household, or even everyone other than yourself, and that's been the case since we've had those communities. This is just another case of something looking slightly different on the surface but actually being more of the same. The way to fight isolation is not to restrict choice of community, but to reach out to other communities and individuals and make them feel welcome.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Faark on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @06:24PM (#17762444)
> This is just another case of something looking slightly different on the surface but actually being more of the same.

That can be said about every development ever. But it being more easy / efficient can bring out existing systems out of balance at some point, once counter-acting forces are overwhelmed... especially if those don't improve (as fast).

> reach out to other communities and individuals and make them feel welcome.

That doesn't seem to be a winning strategy in current US politics. And the shared consensus seems to be eroding fast. I understand there are a lot of additional problems (like the shitty two party voting system) feeding into that, even strengthening each other. But finding a shared consensus seems absolutely necessary when living with other people in the same city/country/planet at a time were we can dramatically effect each others lives.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by kbenson on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @07:11PM (#17762702)
> That doesn't seem to be a winning strategy in current US politics.

There are lots of different parties between different constituencies that are incentivized to sow discord between them. I'm not sure any olive branches that are offered are even seen by the other side given all the blades flying about.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @06:24PM (#17762443)
I understand! The ease with which people can isolate themselves is dangerous, damaging, and frankly terrifying.

Yet, is it possible that this isn't remotely new? Is it possible that digital communities enable people to find communities where they are not pushed out, instead of being coerced into ones where they are? And that perhaps many people have had the experience not of isolating themselves in dangerous and damaging ways, but of being isolated by the people who are supposed to be their community?

You're absolute right about the danger. It's just possible that there might be some room for subtlety here.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Bjartr on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:49PM (#17762237)
This is the balance on enabling people to escape from communities in which they are censored, to allow those ostracized for their beliefs can find those who will respect them despite, or even because of, the beliefs they hold.

I believe that our tendency to view unpopular beliefs a stain upon a person's immutable character is a more fundamental (as in, earlier in the causal chain) cause of the damage to society you describe.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by marssaxman on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @04:59AM (#17764603)
The phrase "isolate themselves into communities" strikes me oddly. I'm glad to have more options for finding communities I might be able to be a part of.

What makes it "our" society? I've never felt like a part of it.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Karrot_Kream on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:06PM (#17761905)
Unfortunately, by simply existing you have an effect on your local area. Divesting yourself from the local community is limiting your stake in it and can make your action in the local area less accountable. Ownership and community are historically ways to have accountability in a geographical area.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by stareatgoats on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:48PM (#17762225)
This is more a response to most other commenters that vilify this stance. Yeah, it's good to support your local community and engage with your neighbors in matters that unite purely based on geography. But it can definitely be a tyranny, as many who escaped the small 'everybody-knows-everybody' village into the relieving anonymity of the big city will testify. Especially so if you have been bestowed with some personality trait that traditionally has been subject to chastise or outright persecution. The internet is the freedom of the big city squared. You socialize with peers and like minded people, not with those that happen to live in your apartment building. As for 'echo chamber'; there is that, but on balance I'd say it's not like the internet to a larger degree than previously prevents you from seeing other opinions or doesn't confront you with strange views. On the contrary, in my experience.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by xg15 on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @08:13PM (#17762966)
I will share your opinion when we at some point have an immersive, livable virtual reality in which everyone has control over their own code.

Until that, the current virtual "communities" seem like a poor substitute for actual communities, long-term. Yes, you get to meet like-minded people (or more precisely, one aspect of the personalities of some like-minded people), however what you can actually do with them is tightly restricted to the online sphere. No common activities, no parties, no activism outside the internet, no dating. No differing viewpoints. No even knowing who you are talking with.

This seems like a poor substitute to (non-coerced) physical communities.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @09:17PM (#17763174)
That some people prefer them, complete with all the incredibly glaring shortcomings you so correctly identify, might be considered by some to be eloquent commentary on the importance of choice.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by kennyadam on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @03:31AM (#17764298)
I'd say it's incredibly obvious why people would prefer a restricted environment where they can present themselves as their idealised self. I'm sure it's great for some people, but arguing that it's great for everyone, and not damaging for society as a whole, seems shortsighted.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @10:42AM (#17766351)
You're right! We should consider carefully that there might not be a universally correct answer here.

Like most things, I suspect it may be best regarded as a tradeoff. Is presenting as your idealized in a restricted environment more or less harmful to society than being unable to present as anything that vaguely resembles yourself in a less restricted environment?

There might not one answer that's right for everyone.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by jimbokun on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:14PM (#17761959)
"The first one I've ever actually felt like I was a part of, where I was always welcome and could always rely on finding people like me."

People who think like you do, who will never challenge you about anything important, or expose you to uncomfortable ideas or opinions, or cause you to question your assumptions about the world.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @06:29PM (#17762476)
You're right. Squishies like self-similar bubbles. And squishies like the idea that their bubble is better than every other bubble, if other squishies could just be forced to adapt to it.

This seems to be true of most squishies, no matter how they connect.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by bloaf on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @07:04PM (#17762665)
The issue is that the forced interactions via geographical proximity are a kind of moderating force.

Communities built around what they love are usually good, but what if what you love is terrible?

https://imgur.com/GripW3M

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by taurath on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @08:04PM (#17762934)
> Communities built around what they love are usually good, but what if what you love is terrible?

We have the law to regulate what is acceptable or unacceptable - almost all laws are there to regulate person-to-person interactions. If what you love requires murdering someone, we already call that out. If what you love involves playing "I Will Survive" with a kazoo, we don't call you out unless you have a very loud kazoo and people are trying to sleep.

Laws and social pressure are also a moderating force. Forcing 2 people that are very opposed to have a forced interaction about the things they are opposed on probably results in quite a few bar fights - more often than not though they leave.

If the lack of general empathy and over-demonization of the "other" is a problem, well, try being a person of color in the 50s or before. If anything interactions have gotten better, except for those who need to have everyone look and act like them in order to function.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by thousandautumns on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @10:18AM (#17766171)
> Laws and social pressure are also a moderating force

Perhaps this was true in the days prior to the internet, but it certainly isn’t the case now. In fact, social pressures in the online sphere can be the opposite of a moderating force. In the analysis of the online culture wars, many authors have pointed out how the alt right bursting into the mainstream was in many ways a response to the societal pressure to conform to ever increasing (and at times, absurd) rules of a radical “PC culture”.

As a disclaimer, this isn’t to justify the alt right movement or to condemn political correctness wholesale. But the point is that societal pressure is not moderating anything. On the contrary, the internet has allowed people to simply retreat from the parts of society that previously may have pressured them into moderation, and instead to enclose themselves in the parts of society that not only accept their radical culture, but encourage it.

> If the lack of general empathy and over-demonization of the "other" is a problem, well, try being a person of color in the 50s or before.

And yet the rights of racial minorities still made massive strides in absence of the internet. Many of the commenters here have made arguments that along the lines of “a gay person would never have found acceptance without the geographical boundary breaking communities of the internet”, and frankly, I’m not sure that is true. The changing attitudes towards LGBT persons isn’t any more radical than many of the other social revolutions that have taken place without the internet.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by taurath on Thursday August 16, 2018 @12:40AM (#17771932)
I think you have a reasonable interpretation, though I disagree that the endpoint is increased radicalization. Certainly it’s far easier to find people that are on your side, but that doesn’t mean that the number of people that believe what you believe goes up naturally. I think everyone is jockeying around in a new space and trying to figure out what “community” means as conversations move online. There definitely is a radicalizinf element in an echo chamber, but there’s also a lot of wonderful communities being built that could not have. When things start to translate into the public sphere is where it is messiest right now.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @07:07PM (#17762684)
Bang on. Other people are definitely a moderating force towards what they collectively believe to be reasonable. Sometimes that's something like "no murder". Other times its "those with the wrong skin color are subhuman".

It's possible that this kind of conformity might be best treated as something other than a universally positive force.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by LMYahooTFY on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @11:37PM (#17763581)
I think you're applying the words "tyranny" and "coercion" very sloppily here, and seem rather dismissive of community as it's existed prior to "real community".

I don't see anything you've stated as mutually exclusive to the previous comment.

I point out what I perceive as dismissive because I think there are important aspects of human character that 'tyrannical' circumstances help to shape, enabling us to learn patience and tolerance of opposing views.

It's how we ultimately achieve error correction in culture and progress as a society, and it's not clear to me that an option for people to utterly extinguish all of that from one's environment is an upgrade.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @12:07AM (#17763695)
Thank you! You're very right. I've not communicated well. Please allow me to clarify.

I should rephrase: this is the first experience I've had of what is commonly described as "community". I hope that clarifies matters. I am not describing a community encountered as an artifact. I am describing the experience of being a member of a community. I hope this helps! Do let me know if I can help clarify more.

The comment to which I was responding took a very narrow view of what defines a community. The definition offered is one that would have been obvious to an illiterate serf a thousand years ago - people nearby they have no choice but to cooperate with for basic survival. For the most part, you had two choices: membership or death. And membership meant conforming.

Some might consider such a choice coercive. Such a person might even consider the circumstances that require that choice tyrannical.

I have offered a much more expansive one, where a person can be a member of multiple communities non-exclusively in a way that allows them to find communities that suit them. This formulation, unfortunately, can be seen as dismissive of the value of the communities of the past.

This is a very understandable viewpoint. After all, the expansive definition would seem to do away with the basic tenants of the narrow one. Yet, it's perhaps possible that this view could become even more correct than it already is! There's absolutely value in what even the narrowest of definitions would consider a community. They teach the value of belonging, of collaboration, and of many hands making light work. It just might be worth considering that there could be other lessons to be learned in this world that might not be fully captured there.

After all, humans are not TCP/IP. Capital-T Truth is not always easy to come by. There are still people in this world who consider (for example) failing to say the right ritual words at the right ritual time every day to be a grievous error in need of correction.

In a world where the obvious truths of the past are today's errors to be progressed beyond, we are presented with the wonderful opportunity to let endless forms of community bloom most beautiful. That we might learn from this glorious array what can be progressed beyond and how.

Though I understand if some would prefer not to.

Thank you very much, from the bottom of my heart, for the opportunity to engage.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by LMYahooTFY on Thursday August 16, 2018 @05:33PM (#17778588)
And thank you for your reception and elaboration.

It seems as though we are illuminating more nuance of the varied interaction and outcome of communal constructs.

I find what you've elaborated to be true and insightful, and reminds me that our perspective can always miss significant factors that may determine our outlook to be optimistic or pessimistic.

I wonder if what the aforementioned comment suggested is still unresolved; would some or all of us lose incentive and/or mechanisms that temper and shape our proclivity to compromise and coexist despite still unaltered and conflicting values and behaviors?

If it's true that the range and resolution of possible human values and behavior has grown considerably, with new nuance blooming all the time, it would seem to follow that there are new lines along which to fracture as well. Though not necessarily in a unique way never overcome before.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Thursday August 16, 2018 @07:49PM (#17779348)
> I wonder if what the aforementioned comment suggested is still unresolved; would some or all of us lose incentive and/or mechanisms that temper and shape our proclivity to compromise and coexist despite still unaltered and conflicting values and behaviors?

Would some of us lose the pressure to conform? Yes. And I think this is all to the better.

Ultimately, I think that conformity is what this entire conversation is all about. I do not value conformity and I reject the notion that forcing people to conform is a societal gain.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by lists on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @09:09PM (#17771119)
>Personally, I view this as a distinct upgrade. Instead of being coerced into lots of interaction with people I may have nothing in common with except vague geographical proximity, I have the option of interacting with people who actually share my interests or concerns or hobbies. To me, this isn't isolated loners. It's the first real community I've ever known. The first one I've ever actually felt like I was a part of, where I was always welcome and could always rely on finding people like me.

Apologies, but I don't agree that's nearly sufficient enough an "ontology", in the philosophical sense if you will, of community. You are involved in a community the moment you hear someone screaming out for help nearby; you are involved in a community when you're one of those scmucks stuck communicating to work in a packed trainer in the morning, you're involved in a community when you respond to the presence of minorities or certain of other races in a manner which may make them uncomfortable (100% not alleging a thing btw, most certainly not the point right now); you clearly join a community when you join the military, but you have, for better or for worse, shockingly few rights and freedoms therein.

My point is that, for human beings, we are by definition, as social animals, involved in a community some way, some how, because we inherently respond to one another's presence, even when that response is indifference (perhaps in the face of someone screaming out for help nearby). This is almost, for myself, the entire lesson of watching Mister Rogers (if you're an America, I don't know if you are).

Choosing a community for yourself, therefore, shouldn't be a reprieve, relief, or, worse case, a retreat from those other communities you're involved in, like your neighborhood or family. We all may have run into that person who appeared to us to be way too chatty and friendly in some public space that we were constrained to, say, the train; they're just answering to their involvement in a different way.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by chiefalchemist on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:16PM (#17761980)
> "I have the option of interacting with people who actually share my interests or concerns or hobbies"

Have you stopped to consider the unintended consequences of this? Mainly, that you become so comfortable with lack of adversity and diversity (of ideas, etc.) that when the time comes to leave the bubble you're unprepared. You don't have the tools and mindset to adjust to those who are unlike you.

Yes. It's nice to find others similar to you. But just the same, there's also value in being an island and still being capable of interacting with strangers.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @06:28PM (#17762469)
You're absolutely right! It's very possible to become so inculcated with the level norms and comfort and lack of diversity of a community that you cannot function outside that bubble. You lack the tools to even consider such a thing.

It's a terrifying thing. You've described the experience many have upon moving out of a small town in the Midwest. A good friend is having the same experience now when she looks to move away from the Bay Area.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by phkahler on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @08:04PM (#17762936)
One problem with virtual communities is that they can't help you with local real world problems.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by coldtea on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:17PM (#17761990)
>Personally, I view this as a distinct upgrade. Instead of being coerced into lots of interaction with people I may have nothing in common with except vague geographical proximity, I have the option of interacting with people who actually share my interests or concerns or hobbies.

I.e. echo chamber.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by watwut on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:52PM (#17762258)
Or maybe someone who was lonely and then found people who he feels somewhat good with. There is zero guarantee his previous social groups were unusually diverse - very likely they were just bubble of different sorts - else there would be likeminded individuals.

Not everyone is happy, plenty of people were and are misfits to particular bubbles they were born into.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @06:31PM (#17762491)
Every community is an echo chamber, digital and analog alike.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by coldtea on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @06:51AM (#17765071)
Not really. You probably have in mind a "community of interest". But the analog world forces you into many communities of proximity without shared interests as well.

There are communities where you pick the people who are associated with, and communities where you don't get to do that (or do it as much).

The internet gives you huge control over picking communities that think/have interests exactly like yours (and that's exactly what the parent was mentioning to like about the internet communities).

In real life communities that are not e.g. a chess club, but more like neighborhood, school, etc, you are forced to live with, and deal with, all kinds of people, not just the one you chose to. At best, you can move to a different location, but you still don't have the control to pinpoint and seggregate interests the internet gives you.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @10:50AM (#17766427)
You're completely correct! Real life analog communities, light neighborhoods and schools, can force a person to live alongside and deal with a wonderful diversity of people.

However, is it perhaps possible that I may have explicitly considered this kind of purely physical analog community? Maybe that I could have even been thinking explicitly about such examples when commenting that all kinds of communities are echo chambers?

One of the common characteristics of communities is that they enforce norms on the people who are their members. Physical neighborhoods and cities and schools are not different in this way. They are echo chambers too, generally reinforcing a distilled version of regional thinking, and the main lesson they teach tends to be how to bite your tongue.

The big difference between these analog communities and most digital ones is that in the case of the latter, a person can generally search for communities with amenable norms.

You're completely right! Communities of interest are very different from non-optional analog communities. It's just worth considering that despite this major difference, it may not significantly affect their echo chamber nature.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by desireco42 on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:27PM (#17762061)
To respond to OG comment spirit:

I love my echo chamber, thank you very much! :)

But I get what you are saying and agree, but also with OG comment as well.

I think we want same things, more genuine connection with people who are meaningful to us.

Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by vibrato on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @05:10PM (#17761930)
Isolated in groupthink.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by _bxg1 on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @04:05PM (#17761407)
I disagree that community requires geographical proximity, but I definitely agree that it's on the list of positive terms co-opted by internet companies to disguise their profit-driven motives. Community requires compassion and shared interest; these days it's applied to any and every kind of human connection, with no regard to whether that connection is beneficial or even wanted.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by Kalium on Wednesday August 15, 2018 @01:28AM (#17763947)
I would even go so far as to say that "community" has come to mean "group of people who have some common characteristic". No actual interaction or bonds between any of them is required. The word loses meaning as the actual human connections involved are removed.
Re:Americans Own Less Stuff, and That’s Reason to Be Nervous by atomi on Tuesday August 14, 2018 @03:46PM (#17761224)