oh well that would be whole other post how we were choosing international name with same transcription in English and most European countries (including our potential destinations for settling), how it could not contain R because wife it's Chinese (who unlike Japanese can't really pronounce it) and didn't want extremely common name like quarter of children in class (i had name like that and it's PITA and don't understand people who don't check statistics and just choose one of the top 10 names) and how the length should balance with my family name and other factors i don't remember now

there really should be some training for people how to choose proper name and they should pass some basic test so their choice would be accepted because their child will be living with such name, not careless parents