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Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by keiferski on Friday June 01, 2018 @05:58AM (#17203946)
I’m going to take a contrarian view and say: figure out why you want to be rich, first. For most people, money is a proxy for respect, status, power, security, social skills, romantic attraction from others, free time, or otherwise.

If you can ignore the constant “only rich people are meaningful human beings” message that is blared 24/7 from western culture, you might find that it’s easier to just go after what you want, directly.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by whatshisface on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:13AM (#17204273)
Here is a list of reasons that "enlightened" (i.e. not scrooge) people would want to be rich:

- The ability to secure the best medical care for yourself and your family in a country where this takes money to do.

- The ability to walk away from abusive employment relationships without a second thought or any stress.

- The ability to engage in high-level economic actions, the kind that aren't designed for your failure. (Buying a few franchises vs. buying a payday loan)

- The ability to, fundamentally, own yourself instead of being forced to act according to the interests of people with the money to pay you. Maybe you'll use that time to act in the interests of people who can't pay you.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by pc86 on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:42AM (#17204388)
Assuming that "rich" means "don't need to work at all, for the rest of your life, to keep a roof over your head and food on your table," none of what you listed require being rich.

> The ability to secure the best medical care for yourself and your family in a country where this takes money to do.

I can only speak to the US but this is much more an insurance issue than a wealth issue. When I made $30k a year I had a ~$75k surgery and it cost me about $1200 all in, including follow-up copays with the surgeon, because I had good insurance through my employer. I probably had $15k in credit card debt at the time and rented a $400/mo room in someone else's house - certainly not rich by any stretch.

> The ability to walk away from abusive employment relationships without a second thought or any stress.

This is all about skills, not wealth. Most folks on HN could leave their job today and walk into something making 95-120% of their current salary without much issue.

> The ability to engage in high-level economic actions, the kind that aren't designed for your failure. (Buying a few franchises vs. buying a payday loan)

You don't need to be rich to get a franchise loan.

> The ability to, fundamentally, own yourself instead of being forced to act according to the interests of people with the money to pay you.

This is so esoteric it's hard to even know what you're trying to say here. I'm sure you could find plenty of people with $10+ million net worths who feel beholden to act a certain way in the interests of certain people.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by systemtest on Friday June 01, 2018 @08:36AM (#17204701)
If you child gets a serious disease, can you take a year off from work to comfort him/her and give the best possible assistance in recovery? Can you take your child to private facilities that have individual rooms and private tutoring so they don't miss out on education? If the best possible treatment with a high success rate and a low-impact recovery is in Sweden, can you arrange medical transport on a plane to get your child there?

Insurance is just to cover not dying. Being rich makes it a comfortable experience.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by rubidium on Friday June 01, 2018 @10:01AM (#17205384)
The rich think of their wealth as a strong defense; they imagine it to be a high wall of safety.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by anExcitedBeast on Friday June 01, 2018 @11:32AM (#17206249)
>Assuming that "rich" means "don't need to work at all, for the rest of your life, to keep a roof over your head and food on your table," none of what you listed require being rich.

Yup, I believe that's their point. If you realize the reason you want to be rich can be had for less cost than actually becoming rich, you can save yourself a lot of time and stress.

Anecdotally, I cut my salary by 60% this year to directly pursue what I wanted, instead of saving to do it years later. I suppose I may regret it some day, but at this point I'm confident it was the right choice.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by apineda on Sunday June 03, 2018 @03:28PM (#17221256)
Are you willing to share what you are pursuing? I'm curious. I'm feeling a bit hamsterwheely myself right now and am constantly looking at the horizon for an alternative approach that could work for me.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by eswat on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:33AM (#17205108)
> This is so esoteric it's hard to even know what you're trying to say here. I'm sure you could find plenty of people with $10+ million net worths who feel beholden to act a certain way in the interests of certain people.

I think with OP is trying to say is that more money means more leverage – not in the credit sense – to only feel beholden to people that have interests that align with yours (family, peers, mentors) and less with those that don’t (boss, managers or people who know how to manipulate your behaviour by using lack of money as a tool).

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by isolli on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:13AM (#17204949)
> because I had good insurance through my employer

However, you only get this peace of mind without being rich thanks to Obamacare (whose days may be numbered...). Before, you had to be rich to self-insure against the following events:

- What if you lose your job? It could take you longer to find one again than whatever Cobra covers, or a pre-existing condition could make individual insurance unaffordable.

- What if your insurance is not as good as you thought, and you hit a lifetime cap?

- What if the insurance company managed to conjure up a pre-existing condition to escape their obligations?

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by pc86 on Friday June 01, 2018 @02:33PM (#17208530)
> However, you only get this peace of mind without being rich thanks to Obamacare

Well that's really weird since this was in 2009.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by isolli on Sunday June 03, 2018 @02:34PM (#17220980)
Sure you had good insurance then, but you could have easily lost it by losing your job. And before Obamacare the only way to be absolutely safe from the negative outcomes I listed was to be rich.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by whataretensors on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:53AM (#17204441)
> I can only speak to the US but this is much more an insurance issue than a wealth issue. When I made $30k a year I had a ~$75k surgery and it cost me about $1200 all in, including follow-up copays with the surgeon, because I had good insurance through my employer. I probably had $15k in credit card debt at the time and rented a $400/mo room in someone else's house - certainly not rich by any stretch.

This isn't rich. Rich is the ability to direct people to research life extension and disease prevention. It's to be able to have access to the newest techniques and best doctor, regardless of world location.

It's the ability to have a sick child with 24/7 doctors and only worry about the child.

Rich is the ability to buy an island and create a clone army of yourself, using that army to construct the largest ai supercomputer the world has ever seen, then solving aging and disease ultimately merging with the machine, redefining and extending what it means to be human.

Err sorry wrong thread.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by tomhoward on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:29AM (#17205059)
People seem to be forgetting this one: to better the world by building or investing in new companies that do good things for their customers, employees and society, or by contributing to important non-profit causes.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by gota on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:53AM (#17205294)
We're at an the point where we shouldn't ever discuss that without explicitly adding "... minimizing the environmental damage and consumption of natural resources".

"I'll provide X" needs to be immediately though about on the terms that it will cost the planet (and everyone living in it) Y.

This is not exactly what you posted, but related: I'm not an environmental nut, I just think that this 'we create wealth' discourse more often than not ignores the fact that we're actually just borrowing quality of life from people in the future. They get to deal with bad water, worse weather, natural disasters, droughts, terrible air quality, etc. while we 'provide valuable insights to customer relations', 'maintain a pseudonymous decentralized currency' or some other obviously-not-worth-it bullshit

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by tomhoward on Saturday June 02, 2018 @12:19AM (#17212666)
So, my comment was adding to the parent's suggested reasons that "enlightened" (i.e. not scrooge) people would want to be rich.

I pointed out that one that was overlooked (but that IHMO is the most important), is to re-invest it in making the world better.

Making the world better for the future is implied in that, and I think that's what you see in, for example, Elon Musk's efforts to make electric transportation viable and ubiquitous, along with the some of the philanthropic efforts of Gates, Buffet, etc.

Sure there are some bad actors who believe it's fine to plunder and trash the earth for short-term benefit, but the trend is in the opposite direction, and it's becoming far more commonplace, even among traditionally very destructive companies like petrochemical companies, to invest substantially in innovations and projects that reverse the damage and create benefits for the future. That's happening because more and more people are demanding it.

Don't forget also, that just as people who were inventing technologies and making medical discoveries 100 years ago were making improvements that benefit most of us living today, inventions of today will benefit future generations.

None of this is black and white; there are benefits and costs in everything, and it's important to be mindful of both as we progress and ensure things stack up positive in the end.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by isolli on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:44AM (#17204393)
I would also add: The ability to live in a nice family home in a nice neighborhood. Which is on track to become prohibitively expensive in most places.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by yayana on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:37AM (#17204364)
It doesn't sound like you want to be rich, it sounds like you want to move to northern Europe, probably Scandanavia.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by freehunter on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:28AM (#17205054)
Which you have to be rich (or at least well off by most American standards) to do. To move to Sweden, for example, either you need a salaried job with full benefits (including the health insurance and employer lock-in that the parent is looking to escape from) that's willing to relocate you to Sweden, or you need to have ~$25k in savings (~$35k if you're married, more if you have kids), plus proof of positive cash flow for whatever business you're undertaking in Sweden.

And even then, that just lets you live there. You don't become a citizen will full benefits for five years.

But once you meet those requirements... you're probably well-off enough that it doesn't matter anymore.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by yayana on Friday June 01, 2018 @10:00AM (#17205362)
I think most of the people on HN are well off and apparently considering considerable sacrifice over a significant period of time to have odds of getting rich..

When asked why, they need only the things they would get from living 5 years of an imperfectly richer life first?

(Is there a probable way to get from an education and/or 25k in the bank to the rest of rich in less than 5 years and/or with better partial benefits during the interval?)

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by toweringgoat on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:54AM (#17204446)
Actually, an "enlightened" person most likely wouldn't care about those factors. They'd be happy with a hut in the woods, depending on donations or foraging for food.

But as yayana points out, none of those factors depend on being rich in well run countries. (There are alternatives to the scandinavian models with a bit less nanny state that also achieve all of those factors, but the Scandinavian countries are the most famous for letting you not care about medical care and bad employers.)

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by RikNieu on Friday June 01, 2018 @11:36AM (#17206309)
It's like you know me personally...
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by pavlov on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:21AM (#17204039)
> ... the constant “only rich people are meaningful human beings” message that is blared 24/7 from western culture ...

I don't think it's only Western culture that is to blame. Middle Eastern, Indian and Chinese cultures seem to have even more ingrained versions of this core assumption.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by maehwasu on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:17AM (#17204287)
Correct. Western culture is probably the least materialistic of all major cultures (500M+ people).
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by stochastic_monk on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:22AM (#17204311)
It seems to have taken on a literal narcissism in the Snap era.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by akanet on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:28AM (#17204333)
Narcissism and materialism can be very different things
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by stochastic_monk on Friday June 01, 2018 @08:13AM (#17204542)
I agree. You could even call this flavor a sort of immaterialism, a preoccupation with what isn't actually real.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by shove on Friday June 01, 2018 @08:49AM (#17204779)
>Western culture is probably the least materialistic of all major cultures

Is this sarcasm? What are you basing this on? I don't think I've ever heard anyone opine this before.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by madengr on Friday June 01, 2018 @01:09PM (#17207520)
Probably the Chinese concept of "face".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Face_(sociological_concept)

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by sulam on Friday June 01, 2018 @10:00AM (#17205365)
I wouldn’t call it the least materialistic but capitalist culture is dominant in most of the world now. Honestly I think the lack of materialism in most cultures is largely mythologized. If African tribes measure your wealth by how many animals you have, well, that’s just materialism via other materials and I’m sure leads to its own kinds of conspicuous consumption (invite the whole village to your party for instance).

Religious orders seem to be the easy-to-identify exception and those exist in all the large cultures.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by mmcconnell1618 on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:06AM (#17204250)
I read the article as pro-wealth, not pro-money. The author says that wealth is ownership of assets that generate money while you sleep. Ultimately, I see wealth as freedom of time. But there are two other big categories of wealth: health and social network. If you have FU money but also brain cancer or live on a planet by yourself, the money doesn’t mean much.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by j2bax on Friday June 01, 2018 @03:55PM (#17209467)
If you have FU money but also brain cancer or live on a planet by yourself, the money doesn’t mean much.

Definitely a sobering thought. How rich I really am...

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by bootsz on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:50AM (#17204428)
Reminds me of this quote, can't remember by whom (maybe Tim Ferris?) something along the lines of: "You don't really want a million dollars; what you really want is the kind of life that you think you need a million dollars to have"
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by sshtunnels on Friday June 01, 2018 @02:10PM (#17208277)
I wonder what he means by that. To me it's the exact opposite. I don't want anything extravagant - none of the things one might picture when one thinks "millionaire's lifestyle"; no big house, no luxury car, no exotic vacations, etc. The only (or at least primary) thing I'd like is the security to pay my modest expenses and cover any potential emergencies in perpetuity, without relying on a job and without moving to a cheap country to reduce living expenses (I would like to stay close to my family in the US). For that, I do need a million dollars, and even that is barely enough.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by bootsz on Friday June 01, 2018 @02:37PM (#17208583)
I don't think he means typical TV millionaire lifestyle. It's referencing things like being able to "travel the world" which many people think requires being rich; when it reality it can be totally doable if you have enough of an open mind and are willing to get creative
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by adrianN on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:22AM (#17204043)
Any tips on getting security+free time without becoming rich first?
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by jerguismi on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:31AM (#17204088)
Live in country which has generous welfare system (scandinavian countries). Here I think people have all the basic needs pretty much covered. You can only get your things messed up if you get hooked up on drugs or alcohol.

Though to me living here it seems that people are still all the time complaining and demanding more and more, though we have more safety nets than about any other place on earth.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by lustig on Friday June 01, 2018 @08:35AM (#17204682)
Not sure I'm reading you right, but here are my two cents.

Also living in Scandinavia and I would disagree with this advice. To be dependent on the welfare system is not exactly being free and have security.

Like the Swedish Prime Minister Göran Persson said: "One who is in debt is not free".

And living off of the welfare system is in my view to be indebted to society. I would not be able to shake that feeling if I was, at least not if it was voluntarily. Add to that the social stigma, even from close friends and family. This would limit your freedom of having an agency in social interactions.

Also I would not consider it secure, since the rules of the welfare system changes quite a lot over time. Which you have no way of impacting, meaning you are dependent and not free.

EDIT: Just realized the question was about "security+free time". I guess you would have free time, which is not exactly the same as being free in any meaningful sense.

EDIT: Not sure why I'm being downvoted. But for clarification I can add that I think this applies if you voluntarily would live off of the welfare system, thus leeching from the ones who really needs it. It's of course a totally different story if you are involuntarily need to get welfare to survive and live a decent life.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by freehunter on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:31AM (#17205077)
While those are valid points, I don't think the idea is "plan to live off the welfare system" but rather "take the risks and try something new", because if you fail you have a safety net to catch you and help you get back up again.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by lustig on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:40AM (#17205171)
Totally agree and I would argue that there even is financial gain for society in letting people take such risks. Maybe I was kicking at an open door, but my point was that there, in my opinion, does not exist a huge incentive to misuse the welfare system voluntarily.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by charlesdm on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:18AM (#17204289)
This has a flipside though. If you do manage to find success (and say, own a profitable business or have an exit), you'll be taxed into oblivion.

It might not be the popular opinion on HN, but I would hate that. Make sure to structure things properly from the beginning so that you can leave when appropriate.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by mrlinx on Friday June 01, 2018 @11:09AM (#17205998)
Sorry, but this has to be the dumbest comment in HN.

The parent post was saying how living in a country with a generous welfare system can make a lot easier to have more free time and easier to take risks, and you're worried that if you take advantage of that, you might need to help pay that off if you're successful?

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by charlesdm on Friday June 01, 2018 @11:35AM (#17206293)
The fact of the matter is that, in countries where the state gives you a lot, they generally take a lot as well. The money needs to come from somewhere.

Most decent entrepreneurs manage to sustain themselves and find a way to build out something regardless of whether the state is handing out money. If I manage to get a win, I want to keep most of my winnings.

I'm European but wouldn't want to live in a country with high income taxes, high capital gains taxes, various hidden levies (luxury cars costing hundreds of thousands, gas being super expensive), high corporate and dividend taxes, and to top it off a nice annual wealth tax. Why even bother trying to achieve more than your fellow citizen in that kind of setting?

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by ineptech on Friday June 01, 2018 @03:32PM (#17209186)
> The fact of the matter is that, in countries where the state gives you a lot, they generally take a lot as well. The money needs to come from somewhere.

The state gives a lot to you, when you're poor, and it takes a lot from you, later on after you're not poor anymore. Why do you think you should get to live in a nice place full of nice things paid for by other people, and not pay your own share? How is that morally different from spending the night in a hotel and then skipping out on the bill?

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by charlesdm on Friday June 01, 2018 @04:00PM (#17209538)
Spending a night in a hotel and then skipping out on the bill will land you jail (or at least it will get the police involved). Avoiding tax is legal and does not.

> Why do you think you should get to live in a nice place full of nice things paid for by other people, and not pay your own share?

By definition, if you pay everything you owe, aren't you paying your share?

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by ineptech on Friday June 01, 2018 @04:06PM (#17209608)
I said "morally different".

edit:

> By definition, if you pay everything you owe, aren't you paying your share?

The line between tax avoidance and freeloading is debatable. Maybe you use less tax-funded things than most people. Maybe you refuse to drive on streets, cross rivers in a rowboat instead of walking on bridges, and resolutely close your eyes when walking by a beautiful piece of taxpayer-funded art. But morally, if you're enjoying nice things that other people paid for, you're freeloading (which is emphatically not a political stance, or an "unpopular opinion").

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by AnIdiotOnTheNet on Friday June 01, 2018 @08:25AM (#17204617)
> This has a flipside though. If you do manage to find success (and say, own a profitable business or have an exit), you'll be taxed into oblivion.

Ok, but if I'm already living the life I want to live... who cares?

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by charlesdm on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:10AM (#17204927)
Then it doesn't matter. But what if you're halfway there, and would be there if you could legally avoid the tax?

Some people care about this, others don't.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by isolli on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:41AM (#17204385)
Can you provide examples? I can only think of a counter-example: Ingvar Kamprad, the (Swedish) founder of Ikea, and by some accounts at times the richest man on earth.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by charlesdm on Friday June 01, 2018 @08:06AM (#17204508)
Literally every businessman who lives in Monaco. Most aren't very well known, however.

If you make sure, for example, your intellectual rights (if we're talking a software company) aren't held in a country with a super high corporate tax rate, that would be a good start.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by Jommi on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:46AM (#17204401)
I guess it might slow you down from getting surpr super rich, but in the end it's surely worth it.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by charlesdm on Friday June 01, 2018 @08:02AM (#17204486)
No. It slows you down just getting rich as well. If I want to make €5 or €10m and retire, it's inefficient to pay a lot of tax if you can legally get around it.

It's one thing to pay on gains you make after you've gotten rich, i.e. if you're making 5% a year on €10m, than on the initial capital you're building up.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by Jommi on Saturday June 09, 2018 @05:18AM (#17272199)
But if the tax goes into something like education, it also has an accelerating effect.

I think this is an issue that just isn't that black and white as you want to portray it.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by sundvor on Friday June 01, 2018 @10:11PM (#17212227)
And you'll still be driving a Tesla.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by keiferski on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:29AM (#17204082)
1. Keep expenses low, stay out of debt, the usual.

2. Avoid industries with boom and bust cycles. Additionally, avoid career paths that may become irrelevant in 20-30 years.

3. Instead, learn skills that will always be useful, regardless of the state of the economy. Typically this means the trades, but be careful there - certain trades are too dependent on a good housing market. Most medical fields (like nursing) are also pretty secure. Also consider boring fields like accounting or certain governmental positions. Many government jobs are a bit more stable than the open market - you are sacrificing income for reliability.

4. For bonus points, pick a field that allows you to easily freelance. In the future, when you have enough money and want more time, you can scale your work hours down.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by simion314 on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:48AM (#17204173)
If you can work remote as a developer you can find a cheap home, you reduce your spending, work part time. You will have enough remaining time.

Then the problem is to find a way to be happy enough, you can have enough money but be unhappy.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by anoncoward111 on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:31AM (#17204087)
Depends on your definition of those two things.

Many people in developing countries have less than $1,000 in monetary/material assets, but have plenty of free time and a decent level of security.

They may not have the nicest house in the nicest location (a tin or concrete square box on a dirt road in a rural location with no jobs), but they are not in any immediate danger in terms of crime or disease.

Another way to create this by proxy in the US is by living in a camper van or large car or perhaps a cheap used RV and parking in one of the millions of free locations we have in the USA (BLM land, national forests, street parking, private land negotiated with a friendly owner).

But if you were wondering like, you know, where can I get a free house with no property taxes in a nice city neighborhood with free health insurance, I'm afraid it doesn't exist unless you are the child of a rich and loving parent.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by nopinsight on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:56AM (#17204207)
> Many people in developing countries have less than $1,000 in monetary/material assets, but have plenty of free time and a decent level of security.

As someone with fairly deep knowledge about such a country, many poorer people tend to have no security when they get older or if they get a severe accident. On average, they have little or no savings and often significant debt. Having kids is their insurance against the future, but it is like playing roulette since many/most young people do not earn enough to support their parents (or even live comfortably themselves).

If they wish to raise their kids well, while not having much education themselves, they need to work really hard, not unlike two- or three-jobbers in the States. Otherwise, their kids will have bad education and often need to work minimum wage or only a bit better as an adult.

Free time, yes but only for those who don't prepare much for the future. Security, not really.

(Check out statistics of working hours in developing vs developed countries. People in developing countries often work harder and earn less even in PPP terms.)

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by anoncoward111 on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:14AM (#17204278)
Online jobs are increasing at a very rapid pace and people in developing countries will have more and more opportunities to make real wages without injuring themselves.

I spent many months in developing countries too, and I currently live in the USA in my car on like $7,000 a year all in.

Btw, US salaries are dropping/leveling off because of all the increasing work that is able to be performed abroad. I applaud this :)

And as for having kids as an insurance policy for an accident, my gf and I have already decided that we would never subject someone to such imprisonment. We escaped similar situations ourselves, where our parents feel like they own us because they birthed us.

Die when you die; when you die, you're gonna die

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by sershe on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:29AM (#17205066)
To start, basically regardless of a person, money is time (at a certain standard of living). Too many people internalized working for money as something expected and/or inevitable... I'm not saying it's not normal, or unfair or bad; it's simply something you put up with, like driving - if your car drove itself, you'd never drive except perhaps for fun occasionally.

Even if you love your job and would do it if you were wealthy, it's still the same analogy... it's much better to go drive from A to B for fun every day you want, than to have to drive from A to B for work every day. In fact, thinking of my own situation, I like my job and I like to code in my free time... but both being burned out occasionally and just having less free time means I do much less of the latter than I want to. So instead of writing some code I find interesting I have to fix somebody's legacy systems at work... or even create something nice at work, but less interesting to me (although more commercially viable, obviously) than what I would do otherwise.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by ryanwaggoner on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:06AM (#17203981)
I think he hints at this at the very end.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by hyperpallium on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:15AM (#17204012)
> When you're finally wealthy, you'll realize that it wasn't what you were seeking in the first place.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by zuck9 on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:11AM (#17204000)
How does money get you social skills?
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by keiferski on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:18AM (#17204029)
If you’re poor and rude, you’re just an asshole. But if you’re rich and rude, well, then you’re “eccentric.”
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by true_religion on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:26AM (#17204066)
Only if you have social respectability from another source than your wealth. If you're rich and rude, you're just a "typical rich asshole".

Don't believe me? See how most people treat or think about rich children, who have no accomplishments beyond being born wealthy.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by gnode on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:01AM (#17204858)
That's not riches; that's status. They often go hand-in-hand, but it's important to not confuse the two, as the article mentions.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by trevyn on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:15AM (#17204013)
You can pay people to coach you and to practice with in a low-stress environment.

Interestingly, in this same way, money can also buy happiness, through happiness coaching. :)

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by mehrdadn on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:19AM (#17204034)
> Interestingly, in this same way, money can also buy happiness, through happiness coaching. :)

Kind of like this? http://mimiandeunice.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/ME_353_D...

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by trevyn on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:19AM (#17204293)
Ironically, that’s weirdly close to how it turns out. My current model is that humans are really driven by avoidance of various types of mental anguish (“suffering”), but can use pleasure and “happy things” to distract from suffering instead of removing the suffering. So after a while the pleasure or happiness seems like the goal.

But, if you decide to stop suffering and are able to achieve that, pleasure and “happiness” actually don’t serve much of a purpose anymore, but you still feel really good; it’s more of a “well-being” sensation.

Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by jabbaker on Friday June 01, 2018 @07:21AM (#17204302)
I've been interested in finding some kind of approach to practice my social skills in a safe environment, what services offer something like that?
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by eswat on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:44AM (#17205213)
Already mentioned, but Meetup and its kin (Eventbrite, Facebook events) are good gateways into meetups that you’d have enough interest in that the possibility of connecting with someone you’d get along with is high.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by andrewflnr on Friday June 01, 2018 @09:32AM (#17205096)
Meetup.com. Seriously. A public meetup is probably used to getting the occasional random awkward person, and may have introductions built into its format. I've had good luck with smallish ones, anyway.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by Ma8ee on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:22AM (#17204044)
Maybe you don't need social skills when you are rich enough.
Re:How to get rich without getting lucky by fwdpropaganda on Friday June 01, 2018 @06:46AM (#17204164)
I guess you didn't read until the end.

> When you're finally wealthy, you'll realize that it wasn't what you were seeking in the first place. But that's for another day.