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Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @06:18PM (#17078400)
You just never know who might turn up from your past...

1999: I was a sysadmin at an ISP in Austin. One day we had a tour come through, people looking to see if they wanted to colo in our datacenter. In walks in the former CEO and most of the technical staff from the Oklahoma City-based ISP I'd started my career at and left in '96. We laughed, shook hands.. and they headhunted me away a couple months later with a 200% salary increase for their new Austin-based startup.

2015: interviewing for a remote sysadmin position at a firm in California. They knew of me through some mailing lists I've run for a couple of decades. A couple of interviews in, I mention that I'd need to get off early on Thursdays to attend Lodge as I was a Freemason. Turns out two other execs interviewing me were also Masons. It certainly didn't hurt my job prospects.. And then after I started the CEO asked "Weren't you mr_bill on efnet #unix IRC in the 90s?" I gulped and said "Yeah..." and he said "Cool! I was on there too..."

And, at my current job, after I got hired, my team lead said "Yeah, (other coworker) said you were cool and said you'd fit in well here..." - turns out the other coworker was another EFNet IRC buddy that I'd never met in person..

So, never lie about a contact or reference and never burn bridges if you can avoid it - you never know when someone from your past may be in a position to influence your future.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by swozey on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @07:02PM (#17078658)
And on the flip side bear in mind that some of us were 10-15yo on IRC back in the day. Don't fault those of us too hard.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by rlayton2 on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @07:37PM (#17078819)
Yes, one of the great things about the "don't use your proper name on the internet" was the ability to let go of the past if needed. Much much harder now.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by roel_v on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @02:52AM (#17080473)
Getting ot now, but actually you'd be surprised (at least I was) how fast you drop off the internet as websites and services die. I've gotten more careful about using my full name maybe 4-5 years ago (the 10 before that I didn't care, and I never used my real name the 10 before that) and nowadays I'm all but invisible online, save a few work presentations with my name on it left and right. I know the mantra is 'the internet never forgets', and probably if you're high profile it doesn't, but for your average joe, even thousands of comments and tweets and posts die off after only a few years.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by Bartweiss on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @10:05AM (#17082449)
Every once I a while I end up trying to recover my own posts and accounts from the Wild West days >10 years ago. It's shockingly hard - anything less established than Hotmail has a pretty good chance of simply being gone or unrecoverable.

Which is a pain when I'm looking for it, but vaguely reassuring otherwise; unless the government or the site-owners themselves are after you, much of that stuff isn't coming back.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by magduf on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:17PM (#17084275)
How is it that hard? I still don't use my proper name. The only exception is Facebook, but I don't do much on there besides maintain an account to prevent someone else from making a fake one to impersonate me, to be able to access the profiles of a few select family members and friends, and to sell stuff on the local yard-sale groups. For all my other internet activities, including this site, Reddit, etc., I use pseudonyms.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by bpp on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @10:16PM (#17079512)
Woah, EFNet...I was definitely 12 years old on EFNet back in the day.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by pc86 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:30PM (#17084410)
I'm still friends with a handful of IRC folks. Some were older, some were younger. I think I was 12-14 during my heyday, but I was around for a few years prior.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @04:30PM (#17086188)
A bunch of us eventually got tired of EFNet politics and started a tiny server network of our own that's run for almost .. 16 years now? Running /lusers shows 22 users on the network across 3 servers, with 5 total channels. Overkill, but it's "home" to us.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by pjc50 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @04:35AM (#17080864)
Next time someone says technical hiring is not hiring quite so many women or minorities because it's purely meritocratic, I'm going to point them at this post.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by rando444 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @04:52AM (#17080918)
(1) Networking and building a reputation for yourself will always have value.

(2) Most of the things that he's listed are merits. Being involved in his community, having a strong verifiable previous job history with good references, etc.

(3) Having a good job history, making friends, and being involved in online and offline communities are not things limited to white males.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by gjulianm on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @09:03AM (#17082019)
You are completely missing the parent's point. They say that this is one of the examples where hires are not performed 100% based on merit but that existing networks and references are an important aspect, without denying that this person did not have the merits to be hired.

Also, yes, good job histories, friends and communities are not limited to white males. But they have a strong component of inertia: if those communities, jobs and friend networks have something in common (e.g., gender) it is only normal that they attract persons with that trait and therefore the bias persists. Changing that is difficult and takes time and effort.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mistermann on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @11:13AM (#17083045)
I'm curious if you believe this comment belongs to both the Freemason association and "mr_bill on efnet #unix IRC in the 90s", or only one of them? I'd 100% agree on the former, but not the latter.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by pjc50 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @05:55AM (#17081154)
In re (3), the post specifically mentions the Masons, which traditionally is extremely exclusive, men-only, excludes Catholics, etc.

They've opened up slightly in response to pressure, and there are some female freemasons, but it's still pretty exclusive.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @08:51AM (#17081954)
We have plenty of Catholic members. The Masons didn't exclude Catholics, the Pope banned membership in Masonry by Catholics because he considered the organization a threat to his authority. That ban is pretty much ignored nowdays.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Papal_ban_of_Freemasonry

The Knights of Columbus was formed as a "Catholic equivalent of Freemasonry", basically.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by rando444 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @06:03AM (#17081187)
The masons was an anecdote specific to that commenter, my point was that there are many different types of groups that serve the same purpose.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by TheSpiceIsLife on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @06:11AM (#17081218)
At the very least, I think pjc50's observation highlights that there is a certain inertia in some industries that perpetuates a bias toward one or the other gender.

Edit: changed a couple of words to make my point clearer.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by rando444 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @06:19AM (#17081245)
Well if we're doing anecdotes, I work for the second largest IT firm in my country, and the management is largely made up of women, and I don't believe any of them to be freemasons.

Perhaps this observation has more to do with location and culture than it does industry.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by TheSpiceIsLife on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:20AM (#17081489)
Sorry, my point wasn't really about Freemasons in particular, but I'm too tired now to try to clarify.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by drewmol on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:31AM (#17081538)
Do you know any of them to be Catholic?
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by viridian on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @09:56AM (#17082361)
Order of the Eastern star.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by drewmol on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:28AM (#17081523)
>exclude Catholics,

>but it's still pretty exclusive.

Catholics are a juggernaut, the global leader in that market. I'd say it was required strategy in order to avoid a squeeze-out. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Squeeze-out

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by watwut on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:05AM (#17081431)
Speaking about meritocracy.

1.) We laughed, shook hands and they headhunted me away

The headhunt started on very little information - basically on how he laugh and shakes of hand. Had likely proved himself later, but it was all was on instant first impression - where biases matter most.

2.) Freemason

How is that related to merit in tech? Yes, similar "we have thing in common" bias happen everywhere (and may advantage women in other context), but is not merit. Had he be a women that got hired on sewing hobby or membership in feminist organization, it would still not be meritocracy.

3.) making friends, and being involved in online and offline communities are not things limited to white males

Absolutely, in other context it would advantage women or whoever. However, they advantage people with same hobbies and interests as whoever is already in. They are not merit in any meaningful sense of word, just like call of duty is not merit or world of warcraft is not merit.

I am not saying that any of it is some horrible act or happens only in tech. It is not. Neither is it merit no matter how much tech people like to pretend real world is meritocracy.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by aepiepaey on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:26AM (#17081514)
> The headhunt started on very little information - basically on how he laugh and shakes of hand. Had likely proved himself later, but it was all was on instant first impression - where biases matter most.

No, they already had a previous relation: "[...] from the Oklahoma City-based ISP I'd started my career at and left in '96" (emphasis added). Given mrbill had worked for/with them (three years prior), they definitely had much more information than just a first impression.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by hueving on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @08:26AM (#17081812)
>The headhunt started on very little information -

At least read the comment before trying to troll. They headhunted him because he had already worked for them. It's hard to get more information than that.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mkirklions on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @09:10AM (#17082062)
>no matter how much tech people like to pretend real world is meritocracy.

We are talking highly technical people, what merit did OP not have?

It sounded like OP had 2 decades of experience in his niche.

I really dont care if I hire men, women, or any race. I really dont. As long as you show up and get the job done, wonderful. Many people disappoint and my current contractor is a white male, and I dont care.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by watwut on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @10:52AM (#17082854)
1.) Meritocracy is much stronger claim then just lack of sexism or racism.

2.) I am saying that non-meritoratio properties gives an individual advantage over other individuals with the same merit. That does not mean that former is stupid or incapable. It just means that real world if more messy then we like to pretend.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mkirklions on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @12:02PM (#17083449)
Why make this black and white?

A person in a niche has the requirements to get hired. They 'knew' someone from 20 years of working in this field.

At what point does it no longer become merit? They met the person at work, working on tech. Its not like they were born into it.

Also, I highly doubt 'same merit' is a thing in the tech world(especially among programmers). Programmers are rare and expensive, I doubt HR is choosy when it comes to these things. They have a difficult enough time filling positions.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by chiefalchemist on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:57AM (#17081668)
Yes, we know that happens.

However, to clarify, some of those were ppl he never met (but eventually did). Ultimately it's about trust. That is, can I trust this person can do the job __and__ work with the team.

People who are not will to "put themselves out there" are going to be at a disadvantage. Not all doors open easily. Too need to be knocked on again and again and again.

In a way, some of the examples actually provide hope.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by hueving on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @08:23AM (#17081793)
Giving enough of a shit to hang out on IRC is a merit. Most of the rest are anecdotes about having a long career. The only sketchy bit is the Mason thing.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by derefr on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:52AM (#17081643)
Do women not attend social clubs? Because that’s what IRC channels and the Freemasons both are: social clubs.

Or, do women with hiring authority just not preferentially hire contacts from social clubs? (A good test case: are there as many “same sorority” coworkers as “same fraternity” coworkers, in proportion to the number of each gender with hiring authority in that company?)

Or, do women just end up in fewer positions with hiring authority?

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by bo1024 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @10:11AM (#17082492)
Even if all aspects of two groups were equal -- sociability and preference to hire from one's own social circles -- you can still have a rich-get-richer effect. Group A has many more people in hiring authority positions for historical reasons, so continues to preferentially hire from their social group, which is also mostly group A. Meanwhile Group B is doing the exact same thing, but has fewer people in power so things don't equalize out.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by hkmurakami on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @09:47AM (#17082302)
The last point is certainly a "yes" overall.

Junior Leagues are great example of women's social groups that are quite influential. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Junior_League

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by drewmol on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:00AM (#17081406)
If they are not using this forum, and hold firm to ^ statement please don't point them here, but rather share the post's contents with them on efnet
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by jmvoodoo on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @08:26PM (#17079048)
Hey mr_bill. Long time no talk.

-indy :)

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by alanpca on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @11:12PM (#17079758)
uhh, hey guys. this is weird.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by letsgetphysITal on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @03:34AM (#17080637)
Freemasons.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by Cthulhu_ on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:02AM (#17081420)
is a sideways smiley face now some secret mason handshake?
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by alanpca on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @02:06PM (#17084840)
No, just a 90s era #unix'er.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @09:56PM (#17079409)
Hi there. It's been a while :D
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by jacquesm on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @05:15AM (#17080999)
Only loosely related to your comment but the freemason bit reminded me of this Monty Python sketch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2PyeXRwhCE

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @08:54AM (#17081966)
I rather like this Hale and Pace bit

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBnzp4OkDD4

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by jacquesm on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @04:17PM (#17086080)
Hehe. Don't screw with the masons (or their daughters).
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @06:17PM (#17086938)
My last girlfriend's father had been a Mason, and she was heavily involved in the Order of the Eastern Star for a while. It was nice to not have to explain what I did when I went to Lodge, and so forth.. and when she attended our (public) installation of officers ceremony, she knew a bunch of the high-muckety-mucks that were attending :D
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by scottyelich on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @07:48PM (#17078863)
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by retr0h on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @11:25PM (#17079806)
Wow, haven't been on efnet in forever. Ever know a guy named chris at unix.org, was in #unix.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by kw71 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @11:26PM (#17088476)
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by michaelcampbell on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @11:46AM (#17083324)
Another EFNet #unix veteran from the same time period. Ahoy!
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mmaunder on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @02:40AM (#17080427)
EFNet. Those were the days. I was pHaze on #phreak and #2600.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by bunfunton on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:19AM (#17080176)
Hey mr_bill it's me Andrew
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by Kenji on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @08:04PM (#17078937)
Question: What is freemasonry about and why did you join it? I read up on them quite a bit but I just didn't find any good examples of actual goals and activities they are pursuing. Do Masons have a hacker mentality?
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by cookiecaper on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @08:58PM (#17079183)
I'm not a Freemason, so I'm probably talking out of turn here, but I've always admired Freemasonry and the Masons I know are pretty cool, so I'll give this a shot. Corrections welcome.

Freemasonry is a collection of locally-run fraternities. There is no overarching masonic organization or top-down command structure, it's all done by the local lodge, which may or may not be affiliated with other lodges. They are all "Masonry" because they use the same rough template of traditions and rituals, passed down from earlier inductees (this is a simplification of course; there are different traditions within masonry called "rites", etc., etc.). Because their meetings are closed to the public, and because membership in such organizations is relatively rare these days, wild speculation occurs.

They don't have a mission other than to be good citizens, help their communities, and help each other. A few generations back, belonging to "the lodge" was an expectation for most permanent members of the community, and many community activities and services were effectively brokered by them. The rise of "lodge doctors" in the early 20th century is a good example.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @10:09PM (#17079486)
I'm glad to answer any questions anybody might have, or honestly, pick up a copy of "Freemasonry for Dummies" from Amazon or a library. It's a very well written book, and I got to meet the author, Bro. Chris Hodapp, a few years ago when he spoke at one of our formal dinner meetings here in Houston. Great guy. It's one of the books I recommend to anybody who is interested in the organization and wants to learn more and possibly look into joining.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @10:07PM (#17079468)
Actually, in the US it's run at the state level. Each state has a "Grand Lodge", that issues charters for the local Lodges (and in some cases, owns the buildings). Each state "recognizes" other state Grand Lodges (and their local Lodges) as "regular"; this lets me go visit other Lodges that my state GL has recognition with, and so forth.

You might see lodges designated "AF&AM" or "F&AM" - that dates back to a minor schism long ago where you had the "Antient Free & Accepted Masons" vs the "Free & Accepted Masons" - all that boils down to these days is minor differences in ritual and ceremonies. That's one of the nice things about visiting lodges in other states - to see how they do things differently!

You'll also see "Prince Hall" lodges - these are the Masonic equivalent of Historically Black Colleges & Universities. Nowdays, a white man can join an PH lodge, a Black man can join an AF&AM lodge, and so forth - and one thing I'm glad to see recently in Texas is that while we've had "recognition" between PH & the AF&AM lodges for over a decade now, we finally have "visitation" - where I can sit in an official meeting at a PH Lodge without having to officially request a visit through the Texas GL, and so on and so forth. This is the way it should have been for a long time, but honestly it took waiting for a lot of old racist guys to die off before we got to this point. Some states still don't have full recognition/visitation between the two and it's really upsetting (mostly in the Deep South).

We're basically a fraternal society with some secrets (all of which you can find out with the right Google searches) - we're not a "Secret Society". A lot of the secrets are just passwords, modes of recognition, and so forth. Stuff that boils down to (in my opinion) "If you can't trust your Brother to keep these simple secrets, can you trust him with anything else?"

Shortest simplest explanation: a bunch of guys who hang out once or twice a week and have a fancy dress meeting once a month, to get away from the wives, have dinner, BS and catch up with each other, and do some good for the community in whatever ways we can. We're there for each other, and anyone else that might need help that we can provide. There's really no "secret advantage" to being a Mason that's different than having friends who own businesses in "normal life" - at one time I joked that my Masonic tattoo might get me a discount on an oil change and I could get cupcakes at wholesale...

There's no "Illuminati" or world-running society. How can you expect us to run the world when sometimes we can't even decide what to serve for dinner?

It's really no different than belonging to any other social organization. My Brethren kept me sane and alive after my wife passed away in 2009 - I'd be sitting here at home alone, would get a phone call. "Hey we're here at Lodge cooking for the meeting on Wednesday, want to come hang?" "Nah, I'm okay, thanks." Five minutes later the phone would ring. "Bill, this is the Worshipful Master, if you're not here in 15 minutes I'm sending a truck full of guys to haul your ass up here.." They knew I needed to be around other people and to be distracted. (the WM is basically the elected president of the lodge for each year)

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @10:21PM (#17079536)
FYI - a Stated Meeting at a Masonic Lodge is basically Robert's Rules of Order, with a little more pomp and circumstance and fancy titles and "jeweled collars" (felt and chromed pot metal) for the officer positions. Being a Mason and speaking in front of an entire Lodge helped me get over my fear of public speaking - because everyone else in the room had been through the exact same scenario, and nobody was going to make fun of me.

The "Degrees" of Freemasonry: - you go through a ceremony - you memorize a series of questions and answers that explain the ceremony you went through - you present your "proficiency" in that degree - reciting the questions and answers - in front of an open lodge. The members of the Lodge then vote on your proficiency. - Once you prove proficiency, then you progress to the next degree ritual/ceremony.

There are three degrees: 1st Degree: Entered Apprentice 2nd Degree: Fellow Craft 3rd Degree: Master Mason The ceremonies and ritual are based around the allegory of the craftsmen that built King Solomon's Temple, although you don't have to be a Christian. All that's required is a belief in a higher power, and you swear your ritual oaths on the "Holy Book" of your choosing. I had friends joke that I should have used the Sun Field Engineer Handbook for mine :D

Once you're a Master Mason, you're a full member of your Lodge and entitled to vote on new member applicants, other people's proficiencies, hold office in the Lodge, and so forth.

If you hear someone referring to a "32nd Degree Mason", that means they joined the appendant body of Scottish Rite Masonry, which is just some "add on" degrees and ceremonies and another Lodge to attend meetings with! It doesn't mean that 32nd degree is "Better" than someone who is just a plain Master Mason.

If you hear of somone who is a 33rd Degree Mason - that means they have been awarded that 33rd Degree in the Scottish Rite due to great and long years of service to the Masonic community and their community at large; it's an honorary thing (think of it like an honorary college degree). There's also the York Rite degrees, but I'm not as informed in those. Those guys have big feathers on their hats and carry swords in their rituals.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by pbhjpbhj on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:56AM (#17081657)
>are based around the allegory of the craftsmen that built King Solomon's Temple, //

Interesting, so it's not an ancient society but a modern one fully cognisant of its fiction? I thought Masonry was founded on a real belief that it was a successor through time of a group of actual people building an actual temple.

Is it in the records of your society who created the fiction and why they based it on Jewish history?

It's funny, it's kinda the reverse of Welsh culture where the current form of Eisteddfod and druidic tradition is verifiably an invention of 20th C but everyone behaves as if it's pre-Roman Celtic history.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by wl on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @10:38AM (#17082736)
Freemasonry's self-awareness of its history has varied over time. Most educated Freemasons today don't believe the origin myths to be anything other than entertaining allegory.

A general overview of the topic: http://www.themasonictrowel.com/Articles/History/origin_file...

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @08:56AM (#17081979)
Check out this bit on "Operative" vs "Speculative" Masonry, it addresses your question pretty well:

http://www.masonicdictionary.com/operativev.html

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by bovermyer on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @12:39PM (#17083842)
So I have an odd situation for you.

I belonged to Blue Lodge #24 in South Dakota. I was elevated unusually rapidly to Master Mason to coincide with a visit from the Grand Master. I feel like it was way too fast; so much so that I didn't properly learn everything, in my opinion. I moved away from the area, lost touch with the lodge, and fell out of Freemasonry entirely.

That was about ten years ago.

Now I'm curious about connecting with a lodge locally here in Minneapolis, but I have no idea what my status would be. By tradition I'm still a Master Mason, but by learning I'm a novice. I don't even remember the proper greetings.

What should I do?

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by LloydPickering on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:09PM (#17084164)
I'm a British Freemason, but in my jurisdiction so long as you resigned in good standing (without any money owed), then you just need to open a dialog with a local lodge (in amity/recognition with your mother lodge's jurisdiction) and explain the situation to them. In England the secretary of your new lodge would either contact the secretary of your mother lodge to check you are in good standing, or ask you to contact them for a certificate/letter stating you resigned in good standing. I think in the US you might do that with dues cards. Your new lodge can help you get back up to speed and should be very understanding.

I'd suggest contacting a few local lodges and get to know the members before you commit to one. You have to feel comfortable with the makeup and ambiance of the lodge just like any social group. You will almost certainly need to be proposed and seconded again as a joining member.

Finally recognise that while you have completed your three degree ceremonies it is expected that there is still a lot for you to learn in freemasonry. The ritual most commonly used in England suggests you to 'make a daily advancement in masonic knowledge' and you are taught the masonic ceremonies are 'veiled in allegory' meaning they are meant to be gradually understood over time as you see them repeated for new candidates, and by taking part yourself in the various officer roles in the Lodge. Don't feel bad that it was too fast - yes it's disappointing that you ended up in that situation, but even without it, masonry is not meant to be understood in one go. Don't be hard on yourself.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:40PM (#17084512)
As one of my mentors said, "It's not about you knowing the proficiency 100% when you pass, it's about knowing it 100% when you're teaching it to others."

I wasn't 100% when I turned mine in, but they passed me anyway - after many hours of studying and working with others, they knew I KNEW it, but just froze up a bit during the official presentation.

I'd had some extenuating circumstances (wife passing away, etc) and was running up against the time limit to prove MM prof (otherwise we would have had to file papers with GL to ask for an extension, etc). I was told "We KNOW you know it, we're going to pass you, but promise me you'll get at least a C certificate when you can." The certifications are basically the Masonic equivalent of "teacher certifications" that prove you know the work 100% backwards and forwards.

In Texas, none of the work is ever written down (its all by word of mouth). At least in my Lodge, nobody ever gets to the "sit in Lodge to prove proficiency" stage without spending hours and hours working with others and the Deacons have already unofficially "passed" you - the sitting in Lodge for it is just a formality at that point.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by LloydPickering on Thursday May 17, 2018 @06:39AM (#17090174)
That's fascinating! In England we are a lot more easy going over the proficiency required to progress. Normally your proposer or a lodge mentor will chat with you and go through your questions and responses, but there isn't any certificates etc. When the candidate is asked the questions to prove proficiency he is accompanied by the relevant Deacon who will prompt him, and in some cases actually prompt the whole thing. That doesn't look very good, but it does happen (particularly when there are extenuating circumstances). The candidate is still passed/raised. Once you have completed your raising you are issued with a certificate from grand lodge to prove your status as a mason, but it is not graded in any way. It simple states in flowery language when you were raised to the degree of a Master Mason.

In England there are multiple rituals in common practice and there isn't a move to formally standardise, mainly from the fact there were lodges operating before Grand Lodge was formed. The most common in use is Emulation Ritual which was designed to emulate the majority of the work done by lodges at the time the two English Grand Lodges merged. You can buy copies of the ritual freely, but various parts are obscured in shorthand so as not to divulge too much.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Thursday May 17, 2018 @03:48PM (#17094862)
That's pretty much how it's done here - if you freeze up during the "official" presentation you'll get helped and prompted and so forth.

The Certificates I refer to are completely separate from proficiency - they're "add-on" exams / certifications from Grand Lodge that show you've learned the work 100% backwards and forwards. I think GLoTX now requires an A certificate for anyone moving up to WM.

I do have to say I love the formality of dress/uniform from the Scottish and English brethren that have visited my Lodge. Makes me feel way underdressed. :) One of the things I was told when first inquiring about joining was that "We care more about the man inside than their exterior, we're not going to reject or kick anyone out simply because they don't have a suit and tie or a tux. Wear the best clothes you've got, we'd rather you be here, period."

There's sometimes that I have to go straight to Lodge from work and I'm wearing shorts and a t-shirt - I get the feeling that would be scandalous in an English lodge (I do wear slacks and a polo shirt when possible).

We do now require jacket and tie for anyone participating in a part in a degree ceremony, though.

I love being the Secretary in an EA - we have a certain bit that's specific to Texas and Louisiana that I started adding a little flourish to, that's become tradition at my Lodge :D

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by LloydPickering on Friday May 18, 2018 @06:45AM (#17100350)
Shorts and a t-shirt would very much be scandalous! In fact there's a good chance the Tyler wouldn't let you in.

Normal lodge dress code is a dark suit and black tie (or the relevant masonic tie). Some lodges like mine are Dinner Jackets (Tuxedo). Provincial and Grand Officers wear a 3 piece morning suit (striped trousers with a black waistcoat and jacket).

My lodge is meeting tonight so I'm sat at work with my DJ trousers and a white shirt on and my DJ jacket in a suit carrier.

I agree that the man is more important than the exterior, but the way we view things over here is that it's not much to afford a black suit nowadays, and it means everyone looks more or less 'uniform' and therefore on the level. Culturally we tend be rather formal over here anyway.

We once held a meeting on the same night as a carol service in our local cathedral, so we were told that we were just going to open and close the lodge and open the festive board more like a ladies evening and DJ wasn't necessary due to the service, just wear a lounge suit. I wore a black suit as per normal, but with an orange tie and that caused quite a stir!

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Saturday May 19, 2018 @03:46PM (#17109404)
In Texas, of course our WM's head covering is a cowboy hat :D
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:34PM (#17084443)
Contact a local Lodge, explain the situation, and usually you can get a "letter in good standing" from your original Lodge (or Grand Lodge), "demit" (officially leave) your original Lodge, then apply for membership at your new local Lodge (and pay normal dues and so forth).

They will not make you go through the degrees again - but you can surely observe others if you like, and the new local Brethren can help you get caught up on all of the modes of recognition and so forth.

People "going away" from Masonry for decades, and then coming back, is not uncommon at all, and nobody will look badly at you for it. Especially if you say "I felt like my degrees were rushed, and I'd like to learn more".

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by hvidgaard on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @03:21AM (#17080591)
> They don't have a mission other than to be good citizens, help their communities, and help each other.

At least in Denmark, they're founded in Christianity, so while I've known a fair few Masons, some family even. I've turned down all invitations to join. I'm not even fulfilling all requirements because I'm not a member of the church.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by sneak on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @04:24AM (#17080809)
Note well that the masons are a sexist organization, denying access to women, and historically an entirely segregated organization as well (see also: Prince Hall Masons).
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by LloydPickering on Thursday May 17, 2018 @06:53AM (#17090234)
Really? See https://www.owf.org.uk/ In the UK Lady masons have their own lodges and we are very supportive of their efforts often sharing masonic halls and facilities.

As for Prince Hall Masonry yes there was racial segregation in America, but nowadays most State Grand Lodges recognise each other with a few hold outs in the deep south.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by jmspring on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @12:30AM (#17080011)
The path to becoming a mason is first by reaching out to your local lodge. The person who responds can help you with the process.

Beyond masons, there are the elks, the moose, and in parts of the West Clampers.

Each have their lodges, their rituals, and focus. I started the mason path, but life got busy. I’m a Moose member and a Clamper.

In all cases, the focus is community. In most cases, and this is what I appreciate, you are dealing with people across the spectrum of jobs/backgrounds/and economics.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by BigChiefSmokem on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @03:05PM (#17085434)
I wish there was a HN virtual lodge or something more intimate than this. Sometimes I feel like only you guys will understand the things im expressing and tbh I would love to illuminati some (adjective) and change/guide the world in more real ways than simply through corporation and finance.

And aren't modern day hackers the very descendants of the original Freemasons? You know, the ones that actually had to build (and rebuild) Rome.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by emodendroket on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @10:46AM (#17082803)
That sounds like a secular version of a church or something. Am I in the right ballpark?
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by cookiecaper on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @11:14AM (#17083053)
Not a Mason, but yes, that's my take. Lodges provide the essential community functions and the recognition of a "universal brotherhood", without requiring any specific theological pronouncements (other than a basic acknowledgement that a "higher power" exists, which is vague enough to allow anyone). This allows virtually everyone in the community the ability to join and work together, more-or-less regardless of individual background or tradition.

Historically, secular fraternities like the Freemasons played a big role in keeping mixed-denomination communities communal, instead of fracturing off into hard, non-fluid segments. I would conjecture that we owe a lot of our cultural religious tolerance to the foundations of trust and community laid in the Masonic lodges of yore.

IMO it's a shame that these groups are not very widely established anymore (at least among "younger" people, who are now becoming "older" people). These fraternities do a great deal to help adults, families, and whole communities.

The only reason I haven't personally seriously inquired into joining such a group is that I'm already in a very active church community that covers most of the Masonic functions, and I have enough trouble just keeping up with that. I'd miss too many lodge meetings, etc.

For anyone who is floating or looking for a consistent community to anchor against, that will be there as an instant community even if you move around, Freemasonry or similar orgs are really worth investigating.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by magduf on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:24PM (#17084344)
As you said, these organizations aren't too friendly to atheists, and non-atheists are likely to be members of some church, so of course they're going to be busy with that, as you yourself experienced.

I guess people in the past had more free time to spend on non-work activities like this.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by ControlledBurn on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @10:55AM (#17082884)
Eh, kind of. There's a no atheists allowed rule last I checked (A belief in a supreme being and scripture is a condition of membership), but they're not picky about what god(s) you might worship.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by M_Bakhtiari on Thursday May 17, 2018 @05:43AM (#17089959)
That's the root of the problem of freemasonry.

It means that a freemason have to hold contradictory positions as true. One might be an atheist by one cannot reject the so-called supreme being, one might belong to an Abrahamic religion but one cannot reject the Hindu pantheon. And within the Abrahamic religions it's more contentious than anything.

It's an expression of the Orwellian "2 + 2 = 5", and it's a very dangerous anti-realist totalitarian ideology, and it should be rejected whether you're a theist or an atheist.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by emodendroket on Thursday May 17, 2018 @10:40AM (#17091640)
I don't think I follow. From what I've read here, the question is "do you believe in any higher power at all?" which everyone except a committed atheist could answer "yes" truthfully (and even then, an atheist could presumably accept some sort of "life-force" that isn't a god).
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Thursday May 17, 2018 @03:41PM (#17094787)
Correct. The question is "do you believe in a higher power y/n?" not "give us details on what you think of said higher power".

In ceremony/ritual we refer generally to "The Grand Architect of the Universe", instead of any specific diety.

BTW, Freemasonry is NOT intended to be a religion nor a replacement for one, and we don't want to be. We just use symbols and allegory that relate to the story of the building of King Solomon's Temple.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by wl on Thursday May 17, 2018 @06:45PM (#17096786)
That's completely incorrect. Freemasonry expects religious tolerance. That is, Freemasonry generally believes people have the right to believe and practice religion as their conscience dictates. That also means that generally speaking, Freemasons should respect the religious beliefs of others. That doesn't mean Freemasons are required to adopt other people's religious beliefs or refrain from disagreeing with them.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by ianhawes on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @05:22PM (#17086613)
The proper term is "Third place" [0].

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by emodendroket on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @10:10PM (#17088152)
> In community building, the third place is the social surroundings separate from the two usual social environments of home ("first place") and the workplace ("second place"). Examples of third places would be environments such as churches, cafes, clubs, public libraries, or parks.

Seems too broad to really be helpful in this discussion. The park in Chinatown where people gather to play xiangqi is a "third place" but nothing like a church or Masonic lodge.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by jwives on Friday May 18, 2018 @12:35PM (#17102788)
Thanks for all of the plaques :)
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by csa on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @02:08AM (#17080334)
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Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by megamindbrian2 on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @09:21PM (#17079280)
Should freemasons do foundations for zero cost?
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @10:11PM (#17079496)
I've heard a story about an older lady who was confused and needed work done on her porch.. she contacted the local Masonic lodge for help.. and in a few days, a bunch of the guys showed up at her house and rebuilt her porch for her. Stuff like that is what we do. My Lodge takes donated bicycles from local stores (Wal-Mart, etc, where they were display models and can't be sold as new), fixes them up, and we donate them to various kid's organizations around town. We do a breakfast for teachers at a local school a couple times a year.. collect money for a couple of scholarships we award to local high school students.. and of course everyone has heard of the Shriners Hospitals for Children - every Shriner is a Mason, although not every Mason is a Shriner. It's what we call an "Appendant Body", an organization that you can join and participate in after you've gone through the three basic degrees of Freemasonry.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by megamindbrian2 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @12:04AM (#17079930)
I know only a few. One installs floors when they need an extra hand. One drives a Maserati. I am thinking about applying. You have to write three letters, the first two are ignored.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:03AM (#17080132)
I've never heard that! But then I've only experienced Texas Masonry. Here, we tell you to come on down and hang out on our unofficial "study nights", where we sit around, have pizza, and guys go off in small groups to study the ritual memorization work.

The "new guys" or people who are interested hang out in our cafeteria, get a tour of the building, etc, and just ask questions, get to know the guys, and so forth. We encourage guys to explore different Lodges and find the one they feel fits them best (each group of men has a different personality and so forth). After hanging out with us for a while, if we think they'll be a good fit, we'll send them home with a "petition" (application).

The petition is filled out sorta like a job application, and permission is given to run background checks (because they might end up as the lodge Secretary and in charge of money and such someday), etc. In addition, a petition must be signed by three Masons basically saying "I have faith in this applicant".

Once a petition is submitted, at the next Stated Meeting, the Worshipful Master (president of the lodge) assigns an "Investigative Committee" of three men to interview the candidate separately. Usually this happens at their home, so we can also talk to their spouse/significant other, see if being a member of the Lodge is going to cause any hardship at home, and so forth.

Once the Investigative Committe has made a decision, at the next stated meeting they present a "positive" or "negative". If negative, no further action is taken and the candidate can't re-apply for membership within a year (I think, I'd have to look it up). If positive, the members of the lodge vote on the candidate.

Voting is done via "secret ballot", basically a wooden box with two chambers. One is full of black and white balls, with a hole leading to the second chamber. Each person votes anonymously by going up to the box, taking a ball, and putting it in the chamber. White balls mean "yes", black balls mean "no" (this is where the term "blackballed" comes from). The voting box is then shown to the WM and the Deacons. If all white, "the result is favorable", the candidate has been Elected to Receive the Degrees of Masonry, and they're contacted with the good news. If there's a single black ball, or some sort of contention, there VERY OCCASSIONALLY might be a re-vote. Otherwise the candidate cannot repetition a Texas lodge for at least a year. If more than three black balls are present, then that candidate cannot ever reapply to become a Mason, because it means that at least three people thought badly enough of him to "blackball" him from the fraternity.

Once someone is notified that they've been elected to receive the degrees, the next step will be to schedule their initiation ceremony and collect their degree fees. (Lodges collect fees for each degree ceremony, to cover things like your formal apron, a Bible or other book presented when you become a Master Mason, etc, and just to keep the lights on). Once someone becomes a Master Mason, then it's just a yearly dues payment. I think ours is now $175, but I got in before a price hike a few years ago and bought an "endowed", or lifetime membership. I paid under $1K at the time and that basically covered my dues until I die or move to a different state - as mentioned before, Masonry in the US only goes up to the state level, and each state "recognizes" the others as official.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by megamindbrian2 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @12:49PM (#17083939)
Thanks for the correction. The female version is called Order of the Eastern star in case anyone is wondering where to join. I just met one recently actually. Really sweet lady.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by skate22 on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @07:33AM (#17081546)
How are the membership numbers changing over time?

I only ask because of the religous aspect of the organization. I know a lot of the youth are not very religous (compared to previous generations).

I really like the community aspect, but the ties to christianity would definitely be a blocker for a lot of people i know age 20-30

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @08:55AM (#17081970)
Trending downwards, just like any social fraternity (OddFellows, etc). People are more interested in going online these days than having to attend actual meetings and so forth. The Masons' peak membership was in the 1950s.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by viridian on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @11:03AM (#17082960)
Do you know if there are any US branches that aren't pushing the religious angle anymore? My mentor tried to encourage me to join when I was younger (I was a carpenter's assistant), but I rejected it out of hand due to the religious angle. I don't particularly care about the ceremony of the thing (I was the president of a fraternity and had to recite a bit of prayer during weekly meetings), but AFAIK the only atheist accepting lodges are in France.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @12:18PM (#17083590)
Not any that are going to be recognized as "regular" and adhere to the "Landmarks" of Freemasonry:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masonic_Landmarks

You'll find "clandestine" lodges (that just set up on their own, of their own authority) or claiming to be under the purview of a "Continental" Grand Lodge / "national" level GL that do stuff like allow women in, but if you join one of those Lodges, normal AF&AM/F&AM lodges will not recognize you as a fellow member or as a legitimate Mason.

"regular" Masonry has the Order of the Eastern Star, which is sort of the "Women's Auxiliary" of Masonry and has some similar rituals and ceremonies and so forth; it allows both women and men to be members.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by emodendroket on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @10:48AM (#17082824)
The voting method sounds inspired by ancient Greece.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by Kenji on Tuesday May 15, 2018 @10:25PM (#17079558)
Thanks. These are exactly the kinds of examples I was looking for.
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by LloydPickering on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:31PM (#17084415)
I'm a British Freemason. I joined because I was intrigued as to what it was about, and my old school had a lodge for past pupils. In England there are many lodges for different groups of people. In the city where my lodge meets there are other school lodges, lodges for musicians, farmers, university, rotarians, scouts and those who have been a Worshipful Master of a lodge along with lodges that have a more general makeup of members.

Masonry is founded on 3 principles; Brotherly Love, Relief and Truth which can be loosely thought of as Friendship, Charity and Self Actualisation via being a good citizen / considering your role in society. Through tradition it is a necessary requirement that you have a belief in a Supreme Being, but in most jurisdictions, that belief doesn't necessarily have to conform to any prescribed or organised religion and the Supreme Being is referred to non-specific ways such as The Great Architect of the Universe. Conversations around Religion and Politics are forbidden in English lodges as they are the two main topics which divide men.

All prospective members have to express an interest in joining, and in some jurisdictions that can mean anything from the extreme of having to ask 3 times before being acknowledged, to in my own jurisdiction, you can sign post you are a Freemason and what it's about, and wait to see if they express an interest in finding out more.

As the worlds oldest and largest fraternity we have a lot of tradition and there are 3 ceremonies that every new member goes through. These are allegorical and are a bit strange to understand at first, but certainly nothing to worry about. All the rumours of nefarious deeds and devil worshipping etc are a load of crap (and I say that as the current Worshipful Master of my lodge who is about to be appointed as a Provincial Officer).

If you are looking for friendship with people from all walks of life, enjoy tradition and ceremony and consider yourself a good man (or woman, as there are lady masons too in England under a ladies only Grand Lodge), then freemasonry might be for you. On the flip side, at least in my jurisdiction, freemasonry is dying off as the older members age and less younger people join. Freemasonry has just celebrated 300 years of the formation of the world's oldest Grand Lodge. Freemasonry will keep going for many years, but in the future it will consolidate.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by mrbill on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @02:42PM (#17085214)
One of the reasons I joined was that my grandfather (not by blood, but he married my grandmother after my real gramps passed) was a fine outstanding man, a 32nd degree Mason, and well regarded in his community. He provided for my college education, etc.

He had wanted me to get involved with Demolay (the "under-18" boys club that's sort of a Junior Masons) but I'd never had time - and I worked 36 hours a week after school during high school.

I finally started looking into Masonry in 2008, and had a few friends who were members. They helped me with pointers, I joined a lodge here in Houston, and on my birthday in 2009 was finally Raised to the Sublime Degree of Master Mason. It was a proud moment - and afterwards I was able to put on one of my grandfather's Masonic rings with a tear in my eye. I know he would have been proud.

I'm happy to have been able to be that "helpful friend" for a couple more people I know who have since joined the fraternity.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by M_Bakhtiari on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @01:52AM (#17080278)
It’s important to note that most responses here will come from Americans, who aren’t exactly known for their Masonic ideological purity.

I probably wouldn’t care about an American candidate, but I would never consider hiring someone who turns out to be a European Freemason any more than I would hire a neo-nazi.

Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by inertiatic on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @02:20AM (#17080366)
Could you elaborate?
Re:I Got Catfished by a Candidate by wl on Wednesday May 16, 2018 @03:15PM (#17085528)
It is ignorant and defamatory to imply European Freemasonry is in any way comparable to neo-Nazism. Indeed, the Nazis suppressed Freemasonry because it opposed Nazism. It is obvious that the majority of the parent commenter's supposed knowledge about Freemasonry ultimately comes from a long line of anti-Masons who lie about the fraternity because of ideological disagreement with the craft or because the craft makes a convenient scapegoat. The latter is especially prominent in Turkey, which may be relevant here given a post about Turkish orthography in the parent poster's history. If there were any specific allegations to rebut, I'd gladly do so. However, vague allegations are impossible to counter.

This does not belong on Hacker News. Flagged.