Technically you could successfully perform your own neurosurgery at home with a spoon and a dull butter knife...
I was not implying that in the least, that's what you chose to read into it.
> One that ignores the entirety of human psychology, probability, and what we understand about motivation, reward, and healthy socialization.
Like anyone involved in software, you're surely an expert in all of these topics and thus qualified to make this claim without backing it up.
One can voluntary, that is choose, to opt-out of any number of those situations. Some may be more important or costly than others.
PhD in neuroscience, undergrad research on reward and behavior. So, yes, yes I am qualified. You are 100% wrong on all fronts.
If you want to live a modern, "easy" lifestyle then some of these things start to look rather coercive.