Re:Ask HN: Who regulary wears a suit and tie to the the office?
by is_true on Wednesday April 11, 2018 @10:38PM
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Some people get extra confidence from clothing. It might be something worth exploiting
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Re:Ask HN: Who regulary wears a suit and tie to the the office?
by artsyxxx on Thursday April 12, 2018 @06:25PM
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I care to explore this comment it should not be ignored. The confidence ultimately comes from the trusty aspect of the suit, not from any inflation of the ego. The pride associated with wearing suits and ties is a rookie phenomenon. Anyone who wears suits long term realizes it's a humbling display of modesty and equality in actual fact, contrary to conventional wisdom.
Re:Ask HN: Who regulary wears a suit and tie to the the office?
by kat on Thursday April 12, 2018 @07:28PM
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I agree.
I have friends who wear makeup to work that reason. The confidence from looking like they are put-together. I imagine wearing a suit can be the same mental confidence.
Re:Ask HN: Who regulary wears a suit and tie to the the office?
by artsyxxx on Thursday April 12, 2018 @09:14PM
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Most certainly the put together effect cannot be understated. I looked up the definition of confidence one day and fundamentally it means holding onto some intimate knowledge like a secret that provides an advantage to the holder. It has grown to mean so wany things it's one of those words like 'agile' where agreement on terminology ironically masks disagreement on ultimate meaning.
Re:Ask HN: Who regulary wears a suit and tie to the the office?
by artsyxxx on Thursday April 12, 2018 @07:54AM
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The word confidence is overloaded and means many things to each person. It's worthy of a discussion in its own right.
Re:Ask HN: Who regulary wears a suit and tie to the the office?
by artsyxxx on Thursday April 12, 2018 @06:24PM
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I care to explore this comment it should not be ignored. The confidence ultimately comes from the trusty aspect of the suit, not from any inflation of the ego. The pride associated with wearing suits and ties is a rookie phenomenon. Anyone who wears suits long term realizes it's a humbling display of modesty and equality in actual fact, contrary to conventional wisdom.