This... shout outs to darkf, nedbat and aria from Node JS
It amazes me how these people continue to help others and blessed to have them repeatedly help me on so many occasions
I've noticed that StackOverflow now has a chat feature which is very IRC-ish and relatively helpful, if a bit empty at times.
For infrequent use, perhaps try Freenode webchat: http://webchat.freenode.net/
Who is this 'lordy', and why are they telling you what your preferences are? IRC is just a protocol. You can use the old clients you used to use[1], keep a command line client running in a screen session on some vps[2]some shiny web based client[3], or you can write your own in a couple of days if none of the other options appeal to you. I took the last option[4]
[1] https://hexchat.github.io/ [2] https://irssi.org/ [3] https://kiwiirc.com/ [4] https://eigenstate.org/software/ircmyr
I always try and encourage people to use IRC over Slack (which I've found to be a bit of a timewaster).
Otherwise you can't scroll up and read what's going on, if there are people already talking about something.
Also this creates to long lists of idlying people, so you can't really have an overview of who's really online there.
One of the first things I used to teach devs on our team was how to ask questions on IRC to get the answers they were looking for. When you're working with niche tooling, building personal connections and relying on the community becomes irreplaceable.
Wish people IRCed mode, wonder what the trend with that has been recently with Slack taking over.