Obviously, as you get closer to the edges of situations, you are going to run into differences of opinions. There is nuance, and I don't think you should dismiss people who disagree about the details of that nuance.
However, no one is arguing for a woman to be able to abort a fully healthy baby at 9 months. That isn't an operation that happens, so it is a complete straw man to try to argue it.
You're spinning the argument and calling the other side "intolerant". You're part of the problem Altman is mentioning. Sad thing is that probably you are not aware of that.