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Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by Waterluvian on Saturday November 18, 2017 @11:23PM (#15732227)
And with one comment on Hacker News I think I understand why people do work at Starbucks.

Not sure why that never dawned on me.

Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by ci5er on Sunday November 19, 2017 @12:07AM (#15732370)
I get up at 5am every day to go to Starbucks at 6am every day. The "stillness buzz" of my apartment bugs me. I go to Starbucks and ignore everyone - but I still feel part of the mix.

I could, you know, go to the office, but everone interrupts me there. It's not lonely, but unproductive.

The trick is to be productive, but to feel like a human in the mix. For me, Starbucks does that.

Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by Eupolemos on Sunday November 19, 2017 @05:23AM (#15733231)
For those bothered by silence but also - at times - annoyed by music: https://coffitivity.com/

Some kind of optimized noise is a weird concept, but I've found that it really works, from time to time. Especially if I'm doing something that requires a great deal of concentration rather than just "production".

Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by taylorjacobson on Monday November 20, 2017 @07:04PM (#15744505)
Focusmate is a middle ground of sorts - social but without leaving home. https://www.focusmate.com/

The core of the UX is the Focusmate session, a structured, 50-minute video interaction, where you and another user act as accountability partners for one another.

You'll find lots of solopreneurs as well as a handful of sole founders, but above all, you get human interaction without compromising productivity.

Disclaimer - I'm the founder. I was a sole founder for a lonnnng time and doing these sessions was my saving grace.

Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by erikbye on Sunday November 19, 2017 @09:40AM (#15734054)
Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by aryamaan on Tuesday November 21, 2017 @05:11AM (#15746930)
Brain.fm works for me.
Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by ci5er on Sunday November 19, 2017 @07:25AM (#15733597)
Thanks!
Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by froindt on Saturday November 18, 2017 @11:32PM (#15732261)
I've found being around others helps tremendously compared with working solo. I believe there have been academic studies into this as well. Being around other people who are "productive" (whether they really are or not) helps my mindset. I would study in the quiet chunks of the library with other people around me, particularly leading up to big exams.
Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by cylinder on Sunday November 19, 2017 @12:07AM (#15732367)
So all those people sitting there because they're lonely and want to be around other people ... But they never talk to one another. Weird.
Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by chipx86 on Sunday November 19, 2017 @12:51AM (#15732479)
I've been a regular at a couple of different Starbucks locations over the past few years, and surprisingly, communities of people do develop over time. There are other regulars that you start to recognize, say hi to as you stand in line, and catch up with. I've met fascinating people by working at Starbucks. Engineers, managers, musicians, nurses, all friendly and equally happy to have someone else to talk to. Plus, there's the baristas, who I've also found pleasant to talk to.

Some days, though, you are alone at Starbucks, but it's a different kind of alone than working at home all day every day. You're surrounded by people, and when the alternative is zero social contact during your work day, it can make a difference.

Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by ci5er on Sunday November 19, 2017 @12:09AM (#15732377)
Or ... maybe not lonely. But want to feel a lively "buzz" that isn't from music or putting on movies in the background.

Maybe weird. But I don't like sitting in my quiet apartment alone working. (I'm not particularly lonely - I just like the energy better when I'm "out")

Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by cylinder on Sunday November 19, 2017 @12:23AM (#15732408)
I just wish we had something like this still - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/English_coffeehouses_in_the_...
Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by ci5er on Sunday November 19, 2017 @12:30AM (#15732424)
I can't disagree. But in the absence of Ben Franklin, I still need to get out of the house to go find a place with "buzz" to work...
Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by exikyut on Sunday November 19, 2017 @04:17AM (#15733021)
In some theoretical parallel universe somewhere, and maybe even in the future of this one, I'm imagining people with private (tiny) airplanes flying out to some backwater dot county nobody knows about, just to code at one of the coffee shops there.

Because people are really forward in rural areas.

Hm, now I see the bugs in this idea; poor internet speed for one, compounded by the fact that said person is likely going to want to move out there permanently...

Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by egypturnash on Sunday November 19, 2017 @12:48PM (#15734941)
We are not solitary animals; we evolved to be part of tribes and bands. There's a part of us that's just not happy unless there's other humans around.

And it's perfectly cool if we never interact with them. That's fine. Maybe sometimes all we want is to have someone around to be faster than when a lion comes out of the shadows and takes the slowest person down. Even if that, or some metaphorical equivalent of it, is exceedingly unlikely in a coffee shop.

Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by herbst on Sunday November 19, 2017 @07:48AM (#15733675)
For me personally it is just about beeing under people. I would hate if people think this invites them to talk
Re:Ask HN: I'm lonely. Are there any video chat support grou... by rokhayakebe on Sunday November 19, 2017 @01:26AM (#15732581)
Not only SB, but that is a significant part of the WeWork business imo. I feel it myself.