Re:How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality
by arkona on Thursday September 28, 2017 @01:01PM
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It is a symptom of much deeper irrational thinking patterns. The whole point of the article is the woman complaining that her husband misunderstood how she wanted him to handle the cleaning of the bathroom. She did not tell him specifically what she wanted, instead she expected that he reads her mind and figure it out. This is not how human communication works or should work.
Also breaking out in tears over such an innocuous thing is textbook emotional manipulation.
That someone would magnify mild irritation into a source of tears does sound like a communication break down, but... this was a pretty good example of a reasonable expectation from any housemate.
Having to be the nagging asshole is, in fact, work.