Manslaughter/"Totschlag" also requires intention (because anything without intention is, by definition, accidental or reckless).
Murder/"Mord" additionally requires one of several distinct characteristics. Among them are the attempt to conceal some other crime, a sexual motive, exploiting a victim's particularly weak ability to defend themselves, seeking financial gain, and maybe one or two more I forgot.
Yeah, that list is all over the place, and rather inconsistent. It will be changed any decade now.
If you accidentally hit someone with a car for example (while not drunk etc), few would call it murder when referring to the event. It would be referred to as: he killed the person, or the person died by accident, or legally involuntary manslaughter if you're responsible for the death.
Speaking culturally, typically for people in the US to call something murder, it almost always requires intent or high negligence.
I think in America, this is the difference between murder in the first and second degree.
This distinction is pretty out of place in German criminal law but plans to change them move very slow.
Getting into a fight and unintentionally/recklessly causing lethal injuries, or unintentionally/recklessly causing a lethal accident to happen wouldn't then normally be called "murder" making the distinction unnecessary?
EDIT: To clarify, I'm not picking on coldtea. This isn't the first time I've seen people be corrected when using "murder" to refer to "first-degree murder".
If however, you're on a submarine and then decide to kill someone in a rage, then it's still murder, but it's not planned far in advance.
Below manslaughter, we have negligent homicide, which is when you cause an accident through negligence that kills someone. If you are driving recklessly and kill someone, this warrants the stiffer charge of "vehicular manslaughter" in some juristictions.
Note: IANAL, IANYL.
Take a look at:
http://criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/second-degree-m...
For example in Germany "Mord" ("murder") always requires intent. Unintentional killing is called "Totschlag" (manslaughter), if it was an accident it would be called "fahrlässige Tötung" (reckless killing).
US law seems to make similar distinctions but groups all of them as "murder": https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_(United_States_law)
So I'm guessing the strong implication of intent present in e.g. German "Mord" is not present in the English word for most native speakers?