>One of my favorite low key social engineering hacks is that I used to have a keylogger installed on every machine I own. Whenever a friend needs to hop on my machine to show me something, they'd log into an account they own and I would have their password.
This isn't a "low key social engineering hack", it's betraying someone's trust.
>I would sit next to them and subtly jerk the mouse pointer right before they were about to click on something and it drove them mad for a good 20 minutes before I couldn't hold onto the giggles anymore.
This isn't actually funny, it's just being obnoxious and mean.
If you're next to them why not just jerk their arm when they are trying to click? It achieves the same "goal" of "entertaining" yourself and pissing the other person off. Jerk their laptop when you walk by. Throw stuff at them. Smack them in the head. Trip them when they get up to pee. "Hilarious."
>among a group of friends where everyone was trying to hack everyone else and pretty much anything was considered fair game.
This sounds like the bully saying "we were all having fun together."
You don't know the difference between having fun with someone and having fun at their expense - and that's just disturbing.
As someone who lived during the Windows 98 era, I wouldn't want others reading my IMs and emails (I had some very sexual and personal communication over those channels) or viewing my browsing habits.
I've known some kids who went through a phase where you would ask them something like "Did you clean your room?", they'd say "Yes!" and then later, upon confronting them with their messy room, they'd get this self-satisfied sneaky look, and cackle: "Hah! I tricked you!"
While I sympathize with the David-and-Goliath allure of reversing the power-relationship between them and the adults in the household, I tried to explain that such direct lies weren't quite the kind of devious tricksterhood that gets a celebration.
It is juvenile prank, sure, but high schoolers are literally juveniles.
Obviously, you shouldn't do stuff like this to someone who will freak out and get upset about it.
Persistent bullying and harassment is, of course, not ok. But most "cyber crimes" that high schoolers commit against each other are NOT that. They are dumb pranks like changing a person's sexual orientation on facebook.
For most situations, the vast majority of kids would just be embarrassed for like 10 seconds, laugh, and maybe try to prank the person back.
That seems to imply that very little bullying occurs through such means. I'm sceptical of that.
We also kept this between ourselves. It's a much different situation if I "pwn" my friend who is attempting to do the same back to me vs. a typical normal kid.
Those practices learned put myself and my friends in a pretty unique mental space for the time. It was an age in time where all this stuff was new, computers truly did not do as much important life stuff, and being a teenager playing pranks and cat and mouse was fun. Just this stupid "real world" experience in your mid/late teens was enough to typically get an entry level job in IT - typically starting off with more skills than your superiors.
What was NOT OK were the few guys who never grew out of that BS. I ended a business partnership after I found out my "partner" had opened my workstation and removed the BIOS battery to reset things, and install a keylogger. At that point it's no longer funny, it was not a novel or interesting attack, and was simply being an untrustworthy asshole.
HOWEVER, there's a huge difference between a harmless prank and betraying someone's trust to be mean to them. I consider keylogging and pwning someone's machine deep into the in the "asshole" category. I also think that jerking someone's mouse when they are trying to click is not clever, just annoying, not funny. Especially because it could more effectively be done physically. It's in the same league as tripping someone when they walk by - just dick behavior.
A prank is something the pranked can laugh at, not just the pranker.
Since I was just leaning to explore my sexuality during that time and my IM messages and emails reflected that I'd be pretty horrified to know someone stole my password, pwned my machine, and read them. Like, seriously horrified and very violated.
So while I understand in cases like yours it can be bad, I think calling for legal action and generally freaking out about it as a general rule is pretty lame. Kids will be kids. Shit happens. Life happens. Don't let people use your computer.
If you were befriending someone with the sole intention of getting their passwords, that might be considered social engineering.
If you are just exploiting the existing trust of friends and family for fun, that's sociopathy.
Is that legal? Seems like a good way to get sued/arrested if you annoy the wrong person, or your 'friends' ever report you for it.
But seriously, that's pretty messed up either way really. You're exploiting people that think you're friends with them to get information from their computers without their knowledge. It's at best not ethical and worst not legal.
Kids play pranks on each other. Thats not going to be the end of the world, and nobody is going to be sent to jail.
He also explicitly said that everyone was doing it to everyone else, so obviously this isn't some cyber bullying scenario where someone is getting seriously hurt.
I remember people doing lots of dumb pranks like this in high school, and nobody ever got emotionally scared because someone "hacked" their facebook page (because it was left open as someone went to the bathroom) and changed their "interested in" profile section to "men".
And that's fine, if it wasn't for the fact that your HN profile advertises your business.
Do you also do this to your clients?
What a great world we live in!
so it was just a prank?
Then I'd do the same Luigi-like low key messing with them for a while. My favorite was when a friend had a VNC server running on their machine with control capabilities. I would sit next to them and subtly jerk the mouse pointer right before they were about to click on something and it drove them mad for a good 20 minutes before I couldn't hold onto the giggles anymore.
edit: To add a bit of context, this was in the Windows 98 era, before the age of social media where we started putting all of our secrets onto our machines. And it was among a group of friends where everyone was trying to hack everyone else and pretty much anything was considered fair game. All of us were high school kids so there wasn't some super serious reputation we had to protect.