That was kind of my point. Phones and VR are anti-social in that they allow you to ignore your current surroundings; but they are also pro-social in that they allow you to virtually interact with other people.
That's why I believe VR will become mainstream as soon as the technical challenges are solved, just like phones.
Except many of these people are using their phones to connect with other people. Literally the opposite of "antisocial technology".