On the other hand sequential access bandwith is limited almost entirely by the external interface and has more to with economical factors (pin count is major part of IC price) than any physical limitations.
First word latency: DDR3 SDRAM 6.37ns = 1/156,985,871 of a second.
DDR is not really setup for random access, because it's setup for talking to L2/L3 cache not registers. tRAS ~= tCL + tRCD + tRP which kind of but not exactly exactly what you want for random access.
I don't understand your argument that the L2 and L3 caches tip the balance in favor of <#CAS>. If anything, I'd expect them to do the opposite, because the SRAM and DRAM both aim to exploit locality, meaning that better L2 and L3 caches would reduce #CAS faster than #RAS. Of course, armchair reasoning about such complex systems as memory controllers and caches can only go so far, so I wouldn't be shocked to be wrong, but I would certainly demand actual statistics before changing my view.
My suspicion is that amplifying the differential voltages produced by femtocoulombs of charge at 100% reliability is a harder problem than moving the DRAM chips closer to the CPU, and that speed-of-light has gotten the blame in "pop architecture" due to sloppy overgeneralization.