Just because it worked for you, doesn't mean there aren't a thousand people who tried and failed at exactly the same thing.
Your chances are definitely higher than zero if you try, but unfortunately it's no guarantee that you'll succeed.
There is literally nothing better to do with your life than try. So just try.
I hope I don't have to go through all the reasons this is fundamentally disconnected from the problem described in the article now.
"there is literally nothing better to do with your life than try. so just try."
As advice it also ignores the structural issues that make trying easier and harder for various people. One way of encouraging people to try is to break down the real barriers that exists and make it harder for them than others.
People ARE trying. Its not really a good strategy as it gets no where. Its only a better strategy than not trying, as not trying gets you to being a depressing statistic, like joblessness in erstwhile manufacturing hubs.
Knowing that you might fail and flame out is the definiton of risk; you do it because the upside is worth it
Otherwise they'd be out there, looking for work. Instead of dismissing the possibility that they act in their rational self interest, perhaps you can study how the actual risk/reward ratio evolved for these people over the course of the last few decades.
But that would be quite a bit harder than giving self-help advice on the internets.
"There is no point in trying, because you will fail" kind of attitude prevents you from trying at the first place.
There is one reason to be assured of failure, which is by doing nothing at all.
in other words, a restaurant owner isnt going to hire new employees unless hes got more customers, it doesnt matter how much 'investment' you give them, what creates job is demand.
The only thing I had to do to get free grants was to show my parents didn't have money.
Their poverty became an enormous benefit for me when applying to college and receiving financial aid. It's an incredible and amazing country we live in.
I busted my ass as a obedient worker bee for 15 years and now (at 37 years old) all I have are 4 debts and a bit of tech. No own apartment/house, no savings, no security of any kind. If I lose my job tomorrow, I am as good as homeless. Oh, and I have health problems for which I can't pay (having teeth with holes in them isn't fixed by home remedies, before you try that).
I am glad it worked for you. You have to understand what you say is a confirmation bias however.
Will I ever stop trying? No. I am changing approach drastically as I am typing this, changing the way I work and communicate with people, focusing more on what the business needs are instead of negotiating for meager salaries that barely cover my huge monthly expenses and food. I'll succeed eventually, simply because people who don't give up + change their way of doing things are inevitably bound to succeed. But again, don't try to push the message of "work hard and it will work out". No it won't, otherwise now my mother would have had respectable pension and wouldn't rely on me for shelter and food.
My immediate family and I came from having next to nothing. We busted ass and have money now. We aren't rich, but we're enjoying life in ways we couldn't growing up.
If we, instead, believed the rhetoric that life is screwed unless you came out of a "lucky vagina," we would still be broke, in Brooklyn, trying to make ends meet, and I would be another socially-inept dude that spends way too much time on games and "computers."
It's not just us either. I graduated with a bunch of people who came from similar situations and are now doing great.
Life is what you make of it.