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Re:Harassment at Apple: A personal perspective by dep_b on Friday December 16, 2016 @11:43AM (#13194512)
> Arranged marriage seems pretty horrible, but in talking to an indian coworker recently, they commented that having to find your partner seemed pretty horrible to them

It's the part where people are forced where they don't want to that I don't like. There's plenty of people married to someone introduced by their parents. You should be able to take another path when you want to.

Re:Harassment at Apple: A personal perspective by smsowmya on Tuesday December 20, 2016 @01:51AM (#13218002)
arranged marriages are usually family introductions and rarely forced. the way they limit choice is by constraining potential partners to your own caste or community, to the supreme thrill of family conservatives who regard that as "respectable". if you're american, you're talking about a society that places a lot of importance on self - not the case in other societies. in a lot of indian families, family comes first, not the individual.